Begging for commentary

“Bershon is pretty much how you feel when you’re 13 and your parents make you wear a Christmas sweatshirt and then pose for a family picture, and you could not possibly summon one more ounce of disgust, but you’re also way too cool to really even DEAL with it, so you just make this face like you smelled something bad and sort of roll your eyes and seethe in a put-out manner.” (quote from Sarah Brown, who can be seen feeling bershon here.)

Every photo of me from high school can be summed up in that one word, and I always have this look on my face that says I would so rather be studying for a test right now, and if I miss a question about the structure of a cell membrane and as a result don’t get that full scholarship to college, you’ll have to go to sleep every night knowing that you ruined my life with that stupid camera. Before you do that, though, let me move all 40 pounds of my hair around so that it’s sitting in front of my left shoulder because it will definitely look better that way.

And also? The Second Coming? How awesome will it be?

  • Angela

    Totally bershon and more importantly, totally tubular!! You kick Christie Brinkley’s butt in the hair department. Fabulous, dahling. Absolutely fabulous.

  • http://shiz.ca/ Shiz Shiz

    HOLY FREAKING HAIR, BATWOMAN! THAT IS AWESOME!

    And honestly, those looks could kill people. Did you kill people, Heather, with those stone-cold bershon looks?

  • http://www.kidslifewife.blogspot.com Mrs.canyoudomylaundry?

    Holy Crap! Is your mom related to Paula Deen?

  • lyndseyelise

    Believe it or not but the bershon has reared its ugly head in girls as young as 9! Yes, my step-daughter refused to smile in any family pictures on our vacation last summer. Who knew being 9 would be so painful and inconvenient.

    Like you, I had 40 lbs of hair as a teenager, all one length, but now I wear it short, short, short.

  • http://denyingsoccermom.blogspot.com/ soccer mom in denial

    Did you hear the pointed reference to being “dooced” on NPR this evening? The “expert” made it a learning opportunity for the host.

    Perhaps Wikipedia can reference the hair as well. Great, great do.

  • http://xavierism.typepad.com/ Xavierism

    I love your blog! You “had” me when I read ‘Shit Ass Ho Motherfucker’ on your About page! I laughed loud…you know…one of those hearty bourbon laughs!

    I look forward to more of YOU!

    *CHEERS*

    PS…I’d be going stir crazy if I left LA for life in the middle of no where!!!

    *<]:O

  • joypoet

    Your site is a refreshing blast of authenticity and humor that I always look forward to reading. As for your adolescent mane of glory, folks who get weaves can’t touch that!

  • http://www.annenahm.com anne nahm

    Awww! You may have had the Working Girl costume, but the smirk is all Kurt Cobain. Way to represent, Gen Xer :^)

  • http://laidoffdad.org LOD

    When did Jerry Hall clone herself?

  • http://www.livejournal.com/~returnofthejeni JeniG

    As much as I love the hair, I think the frosted pink lipstick is my absolute favorite part.

    Incredible.

  • http://eurekablyth.com Bekah

    I can’t imagine how strong your neck muscles must be from carrying all that hair around.

  • http://www.livejournal.com/~returnofthejeni JeniG

    That and the awesome Mantle O’ Jesus in the 2nd picture.

    Dude, your hair is TOTALLY getting you into heaven.

  • http://wendell77.diaryland.com Wendell77

    Wow, ’tis a mane indeed! Isn’t it nice that we can look back at the past and laugh? Well, at least about our fashion choices? Once again, love your site! Wendell

  • http://theinbetweenismine.com/ san

    wow. i am so jealous. i wish the hair that you had back then :)

  • beckyz

    Thank you, thank you for “Bershon”!!

    We all have photos like yours, shoulder pads and all. Now I finally can put a word to my crappy teenage attitude. Well, also put a word to my crappy 35 year-old attitude. :)

  • http://www.kerrianne.org kerri

    How did you wash! that hair? I groan and grumble when I have to spend anymore than ten minutes washing my hair.

    And I love how business-savvy you look in that second shot. Like “Don’t bother me, I’m on my way to an important business meeting. Or you know, to meet Jesus.”

  • http://www.ransom-note-typography.com jon deal

    Speaking as an old balding, fat guy….

    That’s a lot of hair. On a skinny person.

    And my 16 year old daughter makes that EXACT same face all the time. Cool.

  • http://rivetergirl.blogspot.com rivetergirl

    Damn sistah, did you ever worry that there was going to be a mutiny and your hair would overthrow the rest of your body?

    I totally see the second-coming enthusiasm in your left eye, right behind the contempt for those who don’t know that Mormons rock.

  • staceymay

    These pictures are priceless! All that hair totally explains why you like to keep it short now. Now can you show us your yearbook photos?

  • http://www.chirky.com jes

    Your hair is so long and gorgeous. Definitely protecting your chastity.

    And that pink blazer? I have a feeling that the Avon World Sales Leader picked that out JUST FOR YOU.

  • Urs

    omg- you had the most gorgeous hair!!!

  • http://missingmojo.blogspot.com Sally

    Remember in gym class, in the locker room, when they had us bend forward so they could examine our spines for scoliosis? (They probably don’t do that now.) Well, the reason we HAD scoliosis was because of all that big hair.

  • http://www.xanga.com/bellabug bellabugs_mom

    At least you didn’t have the tall “bangs” that touched the roof of the car on the way to school each morning.

    If my house ever catches fire, I hope it takes those pics first…

  • Molicious

    Damn you and your beautiful, shiny hair.

  • Kate

    In the second picture, the book end to the left really looks like a guy getting a blow job. I really cannot figure out what it is. But nice shoulder pads.

  • snooker11

    your mom looks like Blanche form the Golden Girls. wow.

  • http://joyunexpected.com Y

    I want to comment on the hair, I REALLY DO, but I can’t get past the figurine in the left hand corner. WHAT IS GOING ON OVER THERE?

  • http://www.brochspot.com Broch

    Hair looks great now, we’ve all had our bad hair days!

  • http://roomconqueso.blogspot.com/ Girl con queso

    Bershon + Hair = Almost as awesome as the second coming. Almost.

  • http://www.whiterockgirl.blogspot.com whiterockgirl

    It was all about the space your hair occupied, wasn’t it? You either spiked your hair to the ceiling or you grew it as long as you could. Did you use hair combs to keep it to the one side? And I bet your hair looked wicked in a banana clip too.

  • http://kimbanelson.blogspot.com/ dancingnancy

    Almost as awesome as the pink lipstick. The wavy hair, pink lipstick….did anyone honestly think that would come back to haunt us?

  • http://lynn.2girlsplastic.com biscuitninja

    oh man, i remember shoulder pads like that. who’s design idea was that are were they blugeoned for it? i think that was a really odd fashion period. everything had shoulder pads.. even tshirts!!

  • http://doctortongue.com doctor tongue

    Yikes, that’s a lot of hair! Maintained with the finest Avon products, no doubt.

  • Caleb Holt

    You’re killing me… seriously. I mean it. I’m laughing at work and my boss is going to come in and fire me. Then I’ll be jobless and penniless and will have to scratch out a meager existance on the streets before hypothermia eventually strikes me down late one drizzly december evening.

    Do you want that on your hands?

    Also, new masthead nominee: “I’m got a degree in English”

  • http://survivalmode.blogspot.com surivalmode.scribbler

    [Meryl Streep] + x = [Carrie Moss]

    Solve for x?

    What’s your dad look like? (Sorry, just being curious.)

  • hg

    Wow. That is some serious hair. And yes, the frosted pink lipstick completes the Avon look. Very nice.

  • http://www.twodolla.org Wendy

    dude, that hair had to hurt. i’m surprised you don’t have permanent damage from all that weight on one side.

    i mean, uh… FIRST!!!!!11111ONETHOUSANDELEVENTYBILLION!

  • http://keylimepieicecream.blogspot.com la_florecita

    If that lipstick IS Avon, I think I had the same one.

    Nice.

  • http://www.mooseinthekitchen.com moose

    I never thought I would applaud a large pastel blazer, but in a decade when most teenage girls are wearing baby t-shirts that show a good six inches of tummy, plus the two inches below the belly button where the jeans should be, but aren’t (and did you get a bikini wax to wear those pants? because I didn’t even know what a bikini wax was when I was your age), I say bring on the large pastel blazers!

    I also say hooray for run-on sentences.

  • http://ohsotrendy.blogspot.com/ Logan

    I know five gay men off the top of my head who’d sell their young (if they had young to sell) for just one wig of that hair.

    It’s a miracle you made it to the short-hair days without being attacked and scalped. Grow that shit back out, it’s fabulous.

  • thisgirlremembers

    You know, I think the very best part of the first photo is the cardboard rose bouquets stapled up on the screens. Really adds that extra bit of class.

  • http://allthe_lovein_theworld.bravejournal.com Olivia

    I can only imagine how long that hair took to wash. You’d need one of those forked garden tool things (because I’ve forgotten what to call them) to brush it.

  • cauloccoli

    Heather, your mom is H.O.T. Now we know where you got it.

  • http://starshinereport.blogspot.com Star Shine

    Totally bershom. And AMAZING tresses!

  • QASteph

    Ok. Yes, there was a lot of it for such a small you. But the hair is actually very, very pretty. *My* eighth grade pictures show me with what can only be described as a poodle do. Permed and short and really just horrible all around. I’d destroy all of the pictures of that phase of my life except my friends have some of them…

  • http://workman.blogspot.com Workman

    Now that I see it, I think you had that facial expression for most of your freshman year at BYU, too.

  • http://www.hollyrhea.com HollyRhea.com

    the shoulderpads!….ack, god…the shouldderpaaaadddds.

  • Pascha

    Um, you know that bookend on the left? It looks a little sexual to me.

  • HDC

    I’ll refrain from comment since I have no better pictures of myself from the same period in my life. Gads, who doesn’t have them?

    If it makes you feel any better Heather, you are an absolute hottie now. Why do you think Jon can’t help but grope you even when he’s deathly ill?

  • http://30andflirty.typepad.com Littlehoney

    OMG I had that hair! I wish I still did. I think all my pictures around that time were Bershon. really.

    I’m assuming that is the Avon World Sale’s Leader – and she looks like a young Emily Gilmore in that photo. Pretty!