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And... boom

Yesterday was one of those days when the Universe wraps itself around my head and humps my skull just to show its dominance. Sort of like the times Coco climbs on top of Chuck's backside and moves her lady parts in and out, in and out, as if that would even work if things were functioning, and Chuck just stands there and lets her do it, sometimes glancing over at me as if to say, she thinks I'm buying this. She really thinks this is intimidating, and we both know that all this means is she is a total fucking nutjob.

Except, I believe the Universe very much when it tells me it is in charge. And a lot of what happened and then continued to happen yesterday falls squarely into the bag of things I will not write about on this website. And that bag is labeled PRESERVING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

I think things were made worse by my mood, one of wanting to walk around shooting randomly at things that could splatter or at least topple over in a magnificent way, and I don't even believe in the right to own a gun. In the last few days I have received innumerable requests to weigh in on what is currently going on with the circus that is the Republican National Convention, and I call it a circus because I'm trying to be nice. You have to understand that my family reads this website, and in order for us to have a working relationship I have to be careful when I write about certain things. But my blood pressure is such that if I don't say a few things about this then my head may just explode, and then it'd be all their fault. And they'd go to jail. So this is how I'm rationalizing what I am about to write.

I am angry. I am infuriated. And I don't think I would be if Sarah Palin were a qualified or competent choice as McCain's running mate. But the fact, the reality is that she is not. And instead of demanding better from their party, instead of going, wait a minute, no, we deserve better than this, many Republicans are contorting themselves into a denial of reality. (please read this, it's a report from the AP, not some spooky liberal blog that wants to kill babies) And that right there is what has been going on for the last eight years.

And I am just so damn sick of it.

Any time I engage with one of my conservative friends or family members, or sometimes the conservative commenters on this website, it usually devolves into them screaming about WELFARE! and TAXES! and THE GOVERNMENT IS TAKING MY MONEY AND GIVING IT TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T WORK! And what they don't understand is that this is not the issue at all. What I and many of my more liberal friends want is to HELP people, not give them a free ride, but also not to ignore those who would benefit from us tossing them a life jacket.

Case in point: Because Leta was diagnosed with plagiocephaly when she was two months old, she cannot qualify for private insurance until she is thirteen years old. So the only insurance we can get her is high-risk insurance that costs us upwards of $300 a month. Just for her alone. And even then that insurance won't cover anything until she has reached a $3000 deductible. I am fortunate enough to have grown up in a white, middle class family who could afford to send me to college, as did my husband, and we have enough work experience to run a business that makes it so that we can afford this insurance for our daughter. We don't have to make the choice between buying food or insuring our daughter. We are really fucking lucky.

But what about the family who cannot afford that insurance for their child? The family who can barely make rent, and if they stretch the budget they can eat three meals a day all week, let's hope nothing bad happens to their kids because then they're screwed. Kids, go hug your father, he's off to one of his three jobs, none of which provide him insurance. And it's not because he's lazy or unwilling to work, it's that his family couldn't afford to send him to college, or he came from a family that didn't know they should encourage him to go to college because they were busy trying to survive. If giving up more of my paycheck could help get this family adequate healthcare, then PLEASE. TAKE MY FUCKING MONEY.

I get the feeling that people around the world are looking at this election as a gauge to see if America is finally ready to wake up and realize that we are not the only country on this planet. They are waiting to see if we are going to put yet another fundamentalist loon in charge of public and foreign policy, someone who doesn't think that global warming is in any way caused by humans, so screw the rest of you who live here on this planet, we need that cup of oil with breakfast in the morning.

To my readers who do not live in America, who are not American, please know that there are so many of us here who are disgusted with what we have let happen in the last eight years and are doing everything we can to ensure that it stops. We are just as scared as you are of those around us who have their fingers in their ears and are going LA LA LA LA LA in an attempt to convince themselves that their behavior and their policies are not in direct violation of the teachings of the God they think put them in power.

Vote Obama 08

09.04.2008 Daily 2443 comments
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  • 1508. far and away said:

    Thank you, thank you, thank you Heather. I think this last move has pushed a lot of us over the edge, confirmation helps so much (seeing as how we do not actually live in a fairy tale on acid). As an American overseas, I must say that if McCain wins this election the only thing going for us in terms of world opinion (i.e., the opinions of those without blinders on), will be Southpark.

    Oh, and a housecall in the middle of the night here?...ten bucks.

    Human beings can be reasonable, you have to watch that going to college though, they teach evolution there--and that the world is ridiculously old! And they insist on calling speaking in tongues 'foreign languages'.

    09.05.08 - 06:44 AM
  • 1509. Andrew said:

    Here's one Canadian hoping for change.

    09.05.08 - 06:46 AM
  • 1510. Gyszel said:

    You wrote: "If giving up more of my paycheck could help get this family adequate healthcare, then PLEASE. TAKE MY FUCKING MONEY. "

    So put your money where your mouth is, find that family and give them your money.

    It is NOT the gov'ts responsibility to FORCE us all to be charitable. It is a moral and personal obligation, one between you and your consience or me and mine. The Gov't can stop taxing me so f'n much so I can AFFORD to share my wealth with those who *I* want to share it with.

    There are so many other reasons to disagree with you, but this is the classic example of Libs beleiving the Govt must "save", "rescue" and "make our choices for" us, and Conservatives believing in the goodness of man and that individuals have the right to choose how to live their lives and spend their money.

    I'm a mature grown woman who can make my own choices on these matters, so give me MY money back and let ME decide where it goes.

    09.05.08 - 06:46 AM
  • 1511. Another Heather said:

    THANK YOU for "getting it." I'm liking you more and more :)

    Watching Palin's speech made me absolutely sick to my stomach too, and watching the Repubs eat it up is even scarier. She has a special needs baby, but only Democrats will fund special education and access to healthcare, so don't for a minute think she is an advocate! She also believes in banning books, teaching creationism in schools, and that global warming isn't caused by humans! She asked what Obama would do after cleaning up the waters and healing the earth, as if that wouldn't be the greatest achievement ever by an administration...

    Let's hope there are enough of us out there who see through the ruse.

    09.05.08 - 06:46 AM
  • 1512. Steve W said:

    Wow. It just reminds me that I hate politics and I hate politicians... no matter what flavor they profess to be.

    09.05.08 - 06:47 AM
  • 1513. David said:

    HAS ANYONE SENT THEIR STIMULUS CHECKS BACK TO THE IRS YET???? No, I didn't think so.

    09.05.08 - 06:47 AM
  • 1514. Andrea said:

    I have been keeping an open mind throughout this race because I REALLY like Obama, I love to hear him speak and I like his attitude. However, I just don't agree with his policies and so I will be voting for McCain. It's nothing personal, if they had the same views I would pick Obama in a popularity contest any day, but this is not the prom.

    What gets me is that after reading commentary the past few days about Palin and the RNC, I feel like I have been basted in anger from those who disagree with their position. I expect some to disagree, but this is getting a bit ridiculous.

    The point of conventions is to rally the base. It is a pep rally designed to get supporters excited about their party's candidate. On both sides, jokes and fiery darts are thrown. This is part of the game and should not be taken so seriously. Democrats and Republicans alike all have little jabs and jokes they like to tell about the opposite party. It's nothing new and simply put, I would like to say, lighten up. It's really getting to me and certainly not in a good way. I am reminded of bad sports fans who boo the other team for scoring a goal.

    I watched Obama's speech last week and yes, it was excellent. He has a real talent. But when it comes to his signature, I need more than talent. I understand that you (Obama supporters) probably feel the same way about McCain and that is your choice. Isn't that what it's all about? The right to choose? All I am asking is that you give me, an educated voter, the respect that you demand for yourself. And if I disagree with your opinion, I ask that you learn from me, just as I will try to learn from you.

    I understand that some people don't agree with me. Lord knows there are plenty of people I disagree with, but I don't sit there and insult their education or ability to decide for themselves. If you want to vote Obama, please by all means VOTE! But is it really necessary to elevate your party to a level of superiority that can only be understood by those you agree with? Surely we can do better than that.

    09.05.08 - 06:48 AM
  • 1515. Jeanette said:

    Put your money where your blog is....how much of your money do you give to "help people"? From what I have seen, you are fairly affluent- you probably spend more on your daughters wardrobe than you do on HELPING PEOPLE. Obama is qualified? Really? Haven't seen it yet. I am fine with individuals CHOOSING to help others, but I DON'T need the government dictating who to help and to what extent.

    GO MCCAIN!

    09.05.08 - 06:50 AM
  • 1516. Doug Cuthbertson said:

    Thank you for putting words to the uncomfortable feelings I've had about the Republican ticket.

    BTW - your web site and a podcast your husband participated in at Lullabot (http://www.lullabot.com/audiocast/podcast-62-merlin-mann-jon-armstrong-d...) has inspired me. Your site clean, focused, easy to navigate and fun to visit. I hope to create one over the next few months, but it will be probably be about building a web-presence on a shoestring budget.

    09.05.08 - 06:51 AM
  • 1517. tinnymc said:

    can't read through all the comments because I'm supposed to be working, but thank you for the link so the next time I'm caught between two conservative neighbors telling me how great a speaker Palin is I can tell them that not only that she's a great liar as well.

    09.05.08 - 06:53 AM
  • 1518. Anonymous said:

    Did you record the last several conversations I had with family? This is the idea:

    "Welfare should be taken away!" my sister in law laments, "They can get toasted Subway sandwiches with welfare while I work my butt off to feed my family! Go make your own sandwich!"

    This from a woman who accepted WIC and unemployment from our "taxpayers".
    Hypocrites are putting on quite a show at the RNC too. Thank you for raging against this BS. It IS infuriating how little people know about the facts and how much they focus on "Gee, Palin seems like a nice lady".

    Love you H, keep it rolling!

    09.05.08 - 06:53 AM
  • 1519. Anonymous said:

    #1463, Katie: I agree with you.

    #1467, Steve: You are right.

    #1480, Katie: You bring up some good points.

    09.05.08 - 06:54 AM
  • 1520. Anonymous said:

    and you can help this web site make more money for the owner and obama supporters. Keep reading and you will probably see a very large VOTE FOR OBAMA advertisement very soon, once the $ amount is settled....and I used to read this everyday, what a shame

    09.05.08 - 06:55 AM
  • 1521. Anonymous said:

    You are awesome. Awesome and amazing. Thank you....

    09.05.08 - 06:56 AM
  • 1522. Anonymous said:

    When Bush was first elected a chorus line of 'Huh' rang across Canada, but when Bush was elected for a second term a chorus line of 'WTF?' rang across Canada. Now, with Palin, some Canadians are truly, honestly, sincerely wondering if American politicians give a shit about its constituents.

    Thank-you for reminding me that not all American's are conservative Mongols who only look after 'what's theirs'.

    09.05.08 - 06:58 AM
  • 1523. Leigh said:

    What I cannot fathom is how REPUBLICANS got the reputation for fiscal responsibility when moer than three-quarters of our national debt, which is so far out of control that it is terrifying, was accrued under three. republican. presidents. Out of ALL the presidents this country has had. And who were they? Reagan, and Bush I and Bush II.

    09.05.08 - 07:01 AM
  • 1524. halfdime said:

    My thoughts exactly on the current political situation...only you describe it better then I can. I also really admire your bravery for writing about it, and being open about it with your family and friends who feel differently, knowing that there may be a negative outcome. That really takes allot of courage, and is important right now. You are very inspiring. Obama 08!!!

    09.05.08 - 07:01 AM
  • 1525. Qwyneth said:

    Oh Heather, thank you so much for writing that. It summed up so perfectly what I feel. Thank you.

    09.05.08 - 07:02 AM
  • 1526. Debbie said:

    And you seriously think Obama is qualified for President?

    09.05.08 - 07:02 AM
  • 1527. Jenny said:

    There are a significant amount of "Don't get angry / Don't voice your opinion" comments on here.

    ????

    Politicians make decisions that affect your life.

    More people need to recognize this and support, loudly, their choices.

    09.05.08 - 07:02 AM
  • 1528. Anonymous said:

    Thank you. Just thank you. I've been so weary of all the Palin praise in the media this week, I am so glad to see that there are others out there who "get it". Bravo!

    09.05.08 - 07:05 AM
  • 1529. Andrea said:

    1527 - Jenny

    I have a hard time giving any credibility to someone's thoughts when they are laced with bitter insults blatantly calling me an idiot for having a differing opinion. I don't think I am the only one. Have an opinion, yes. Voice it, absolutely. But if you expect to inspire change, insulting those who are different from you will get you nowhere.

    09.05.08 - 07:07 AM
  • 1530. Steve Day said:

    #1523, Leigh, please read the constitution, Congress is responsible for levying taxes and generating. The President can only request monies. He can't raise or spend a dime unless Congress gives it to him.

    http://www.usconstitution.net/

    If you go through and read the constitution, and then look overall at the scope of our government and how large it's grown, you'd maybe want to fire everyone (Congress, President, and the Supreme Court) and start from scratch.

    Steve (the dude from #1467)

    09.05.08 - 07:07 AM
  • 1531. Kay said:

    I was wondering when you were going to say something and I am glad you have, although I share your concern in trying to keep up a good relationship with your family. I am so sick with the choice of Republican VP. I am ashamed to say that I have voted Republican in the past, but I am a registered Independant. I was under the delusion that the Republicans were against big government, boy was I wrong! The things I have seen the Bush administration say and do has made my blood run cold and fear for the safety of my futrure family. Has anyone heard of the North American Union? I was on the fence this year, but after watching the Democratic National Convention and then seeing McCain's choice of running mate I am going to be so proud and happy to vote Democrat. I believe that if Obama can do just one of the things he has promised to do then I will have made the right choice because even one of those changes will save this country! I am so sad that all these Republicans who proudly wave their flags and truly love this country don't even realize that their champion is slowly whittling away at our freedom and turning this country into a haven for greedy corporations that want to rape our people and our land. But because he quotes scripture they think he is infalible. I know I am ranting, this is very close to my heart becasue my entire family is going to vote for McCain and they are such intelligent people and I just want to scream to think that they don't get it!

    09.05.08 - 07:08 AM
  • 1532. Jenniedee said:

    As a Canadian all I ask is that you Americans PLEASE VOTE in this election. The U.S. is as bad (if not a bit worse) than us Canadians for not turning out to vote thinking that our one vote won't have an impact. I'm begging you to VOTE!!! Yes I'm for Obama because I think not only will he be better for you but also for our Country but regardless of my opinion VOTE, VOTE, VOTE!

    09.05.08 - 07:08 AM
  • 1533. Anonymous said:

    weary of Palin???? you better be weary of obama! And there isn't one of you that could wear her underwear!

    09.05.08 - 07:08 AM
  • 1534. Kitkat4real (SOLO dot MOM) said:

    WOW and yes, I do agree that I am disappointed that Palin is the best they could come up with. Not sure exactly which way I am going when this is over, considering myself more of an independent, but I am not pleased with her as a choice for their ticket. As a Christian, I hate to even say that, but I do try to keep an open mind and I see where you are coming from on this... and it is troubling.

    09.05.08 - 07:09 AM
  • 1535. Roxie said:

    I've been thinking for months, "Heather has to have an opinion on this." Thank you for putting it so well.

    09.05.08 - 07:11 AM
  • 1536. Anonymous said:

    Why don't you all move to Canada?

    09.05.08 - 07:12 AM
  • 1537. Lorrie said:

    I have to agree with Jim. Both liberals and conservatives have good people who want to help improve the lives of people in this country.

    The difference is that conservatives believe in the freedom of individuals to best determine how to give their money to the causes they support. If I don't want my taxes to help fund abortions, is that any less rational than you saying "I don't want you to take my money and give it to the Mormon church"? Of course not.

    Heather, I felt like you when I was 22. I really did. Hey, if the government wants to use my taxes to help the less needy, I'm all for it. I voted Democrat for Clinton in 1992. Since then I have voted Green, Green and Libertarian, b/c I haven't believed that the people running in either major party represented my values and interests. I've also seen that the government MISHANDLES my money (Social Security is the biggest example.)

    I am a college-educated women, 41, from a blue collar family. I did NOT attend an Ivy League college, and according to many liberals who are complaining about Palin, a state university is not "good enough" to govern our country. "University of Idaho? Journalism and Poly Sci? Our country will be ruined." This is rubbish. Bill Gates became quite the executive without a college degree.

    THIS is the sort of thing that helps brand liberals as elites. Because these comments insult the intelligence of good men and women everywhere.

    McCain is NOT Bush 3, just like Obama isn't a Muslim. Please folks, get all the facts, realize that not one person on either ticket can claim a background free of "corruption" innuendo, and vote for what represents your best interests.

    I'm voting Repulican. This year alone, I've donated to LA police and fireman charities, and the Run for Justice (which raises funds to help Public Counsel to continue serving nonprofit organizations and individuals who cannot otherwise afford legal representation). We've donated in the past to AIDS charity efforts, as well as to the Red Cross to help victims of natural disasters here and around the world. I also give money at church. Studies show private organizations handle money for the needy better than the wasteful beauracracy of the government.

    I am not a knuckle-dragging creationist. No matter who wins this election, the U.S. will begin to heal after the Bush-Cheney years. (and if you couldn't tell from the party affiliations I cited for earlier elections, no, I never voted for Bush. However, I didn't vote for Gore or Kerry either.) Thanks for offering a place for me to share my thoughts.

    09.05.08 - 07:13 AM
  • 1538. Jill said:

    Democrat/liberal, good. Republican/conservative, evil. You cannot seriously be that naive. You epitomize what is, for me, so frustrating about the political situation in this country - the total inability to understand that reasonable people can disagree. Why can we not allow people to have views that differ from ours without demonizing them or thinking they're stupid or being duped?

    09.05.08 - 07:13 AM
  • 1539. Katheryn said:

    One name. Ron Paul

    09.05.08 - 07:14 AM
  • 1540. Andi said:

    I love ya, but you just lost me. You made my head feel like it needs duct tape around it to keep it from blowing off.

    Sarah Palin is a great choice, she has more executive experience than either on the Demoncrat ticket. The woman is smart, tough, convicted, a reformer who won't be bullied. Alaska has a surplus in it's budget now. She created jobs and is looking tocreate more. She is for American jobs and American energy and American change.

    America cares plenty and shows this by giving more charitably to people & countries around the world than any other country in this world. It's proven, we give more than any other nation per capita. Whenever there is a natural disaster anywhere in the world, who responds? We do. Whenever there is a country who needs help in any way, who responds? We do. And the world looks for us to, waits for us to, and expects us to. Republicans give more per person than dems do, another proven factual point, because we do it on our own and don't wait for the flippin government to take our money and do it for us. We get the choice to help others everyday of our lives-if you want to help someone do it. But just because that is your choice doesn't mean I, or anyone else, should be forced to do the exact same thing as you.

    There isn't enough known about "global climate change" to say definitively that we caused it or that it is a natural phenomenon and part of a cycle.

    I volunteer, I give to charity every month, I am active in my community, as are the rest of my friends and family. If someone needs a leg up or a break I am always willing to help, and do so whenever possible through money or support. But it's not your right or anyone else's, including the government, to force me to pay for the welfare of others by taking the money that I earn and dispensing it the way some nameless faceless bureaucratic government entity sees fit. For Pete's sake, the government already takes out more for social security & federal withholding than the maximum amount I can put in my 401K that the company will match. They take already 20% of my paycheck in taxes. That's simply not right. And O'bama will only increase this and every other tax to feed this monstrousity of a government we have created. It's to big and it's to much and it's not right. And it's wrecking the economy.

    Choice is such a big issue, well how about this. THIS is still America, we still have the right to choose what to do with our money, our time, our minds, and our bodies. The government is plenty big enough. It sure as hell makes a mess out of most of what it does,at least that is what the dems are constantly saying. How can anyone think that government can run the entire US healthcare system efficiently? Canadians say their healthcare system sucks, Brits say their healthcare system sucks, and they have fewer people than we do. Universal healthcare will bankrupt this country, then where will we be? We'll be chinese, that's where we'll be.

    Government is not God and it's not a nanny. O'Bama says we have to fundamentally change to survive in this world, I don't agree with that. He doesn't say how we have to fundamentally change, doesn't that scare you? He doesn't give specifics on much. Why is that?

    09.05.08 - 07:14 AM
  • 1541. Anonymous said:

    Beautiful!

    09.05.08 - 07:15 AM
  • 1542. Charlie said:

    What is really the saddest is that the choices really suck!! If you are tired of your money being given away vote Democratic and have the rest of it given away. I believe in the right to own guns....in fact, if I were King the US would own the middle east and there would be no welfare unless you worked for it! Bottom line about politicians is they all lie...they say what they think the people they are talking to want to hear.

    09.05.08 - 07:15 AM
  • 1543. Michelle said:

    Oh, Heather, thanks. I'm not even going to read any of these comments because the morons are going to swarm, but I agree with you so much. Palin is a damned insult, is what she is. A commenter on Jezebel, discussing whether it's conceivable to imagine voting for this particular woman, said "I will not cut off my nose to spite my vagina." Pretty much covers it.

    I think we have a chance to fix this country in November, and I hope so much I'm right.

    09.05.08 - 07:15 AM
  • 1544. Anonymous said:

    Someone circulated the below to me -- it's ASTOUNDING, and worth a read. I could not agree with you more -- the only thing more nauseating than this country's propensity to put fingers in ears and go LA LA LA, is to pull them out after everything goes to shit and say "how did THAT happen???"
    _______________________________________________________

    Dear friends,

    So many people have asked me about what I know about Sarah Palin in the last

    two days that I decided to write something up . .

    Basically, Sarah Palin and Hillary Clinton have only two things in common:

    their gender and their good looks. :)

    You have my permission to forward this to your friends/email contacts with

    my

    name and email address attached, but please do not post it on any websites,

    as

    there are too many kooks out there . . .

    Thanks,

    Anne Kilkenny

    ABOUT SARAH PALIN

    I am a resident of Wasilla, Alaska. I have known Sarah since 1992. Everyone

    here knows Sarah, so it is nothing special to say we are on a first-name

    basis. Our children have attended the same schools. Her father was my

    child's

    favorite substitute teacher. I also am on a first-name basis with her

    parents

    and mother-in-law. I attended more City Council meetings during her

    administration than about 99% of the residents of the city.

    She is enormously popular; in every way she's like the most popular girl in

    middle school. Even men who think she is a poor choice and won't vote for

    her

    can't quit smiling when talking about her because she is a "babe."

    It is astonishing and almost scary how well she can keep a secret. She kept

    her most recent pregnancy a secret from her children and parents for seven

    months.

    =0 D
    She is "pro-life." She recently gave birth to a Down's syndrome baby. There

    is no cover-up involved here; Trig is her baby.

    She is energetic and hardworking. She regularly worked o ut at the gym.

    She is savvy. She doesn't take positions; she just "puts things out there"

    and

    if they prove to be popular, then she takes credit.

    Her husband works a union job on the North Slope for BP and is a champion

    snowmobile racer. Todd Palin's kind of job is highly sought-after because of

    the schedule and high pay. He arranges his work schedule so he can fish for

    salmon in Bristol Bay for a month or so in summer, but by no stretch of the

    imagination is fishing their major source of income. Nor has her lifestyle

    ever been anything like that of native Alaskans.

    Sarah and her whole family are avid hunters.

    She's smart.

    Her experience is as mayor of a city with a population of about 5,000 (at

    the

    time), and less than two years as governor of a state with about 670,000

    residents.

    During her mayoral administration most of the actual work of running this

    small city was turned over to an administrator. She had been pushed to hire

    this administrator by party power-brokers after she had gotten herself into

    some trouble over precipitous firings which had given rise to a recall

    campaign.

    Sarah campaigned in Wasilla as a “fiscal conservative.” During her six years

    as Mayor, she increased general government expenditures by over 33%. During

    those same six years the amount of taxes collected by the City increased by

    38%. This was during a period of low inflation (1996–2002). She reduced

    progressive property taxes and increased a regressive sales tax whic h taxed

    even food. The tax cuts that she promoted benefited large corporate property

    owners way more than they benefited residents.

    The huge increases in tax revenues during her mayoral administration weren't

    enough to fund everything on her wish list, though, so borrowed money was

    needed, too. She inherited a city with zero debt, but left it with

    indebtedness of over $22 million. What did Mayor Palin encourage the voters

    to

    borrow money for? Was it the infrastructure that she said she supported? The

    sewage treatment plant that the city lacked? Or a new library? No. $1

    million

    for a park. $15 million-plus for construction of a multi-use sports complex

    which she rushed through to build on a piece of property that the City

    didn't

    even have clear titl e to, and that was still in litigation seven years later

    -- to the delight of the lawyers involved! The sports complex itself is anice

    addition to the community but a huge money pit, not the profit-generator she

    claimed it would be. She also supported bonds for $5.5 million for road

    projects that could have been done in 5 to 7 years without any borrowing.

    While mayor, City Hall was extensively remodeled and her office redecorated

    more than once.

    These are small numbers, but Wasilla is a very small city.

    As an oil producer, the high price of oil has created a budget surplus in

    Alaska. Rather than invest this surplus in technology that will make us

    energy

    independent and increase efficiency, as Governor she proposed distribution

    of

    this surplus to every individual in the state.

    In this time of record state revenues and budget surpluses, she recommended

    that the state borrow/bond for road projects, even while she proposed

    distribution of surplus=2 0state revenues: spend today's surplus, borrow for

    needs.

    She's not very tolerant of divergent opinions or open to outside ideas or

    compromise. As mayor, she fought ideas that weren't generated by her or her

    staff. Ideas weren't evaluated on their merits, but on the basis of who

    proposed them.

    While Sarah was mayor of Wasilla she tried to fire our highly respected City

    Librarian because the Librarian refused to consider removing from the

    library

    some books that Sarah wanted removed. City residents rallied to the defense

    of

    the City Librarian and against Palin's attempt at out-and-out censorship, so

    Palin backed down and withdrew her terminati on letter. People who fought her

    attempt to oust the Librarian are on her enemies list to this day.

    Sarah complained about the “old boy's club” when she first ran for mayor, so

    wha t did she bring Wasilla? A new set of "old boys." Palin fired most of the

    experienced staff she inherited. At the City and as Governor she hired or

    elevated new, inexperienced, obscure people, creating a staff totally

    dependent on her for their jobs and eternally grateful and fiercely loyal --

    loyal to the point of abusing their power to further her personal agenda, as

    she has acknowledged happened in the case of pressuring the state's top cop

    (see below).

    As mayor, Sarah fired Wasilla's police chief because he “intimidated” her,

    she

    told the press. As governor, her recent firing of Alaska's top cop has the

    ring of familiarity about it. He served at her pleasure and she had every

    legal right to fire him, but it's pretty clear that an important factor in

    her

    decision to fire him was because he wouldn't fire her sister's ex-husband, a

    state trooper. Under investigation for abuse of power, she has had to admit

    that more than two dozen contacts were made between her staff and family to

    the person that she later fired, pressuring him to fire her

    ex-brother-in-law.

    She tried to replace the man she fired with a man who she knew had been

    reprimanded for sexual harassment; when this caused a public furor, she

    withdrew her support.

    She has bitten the hand of every person who extended theirs to her in help.

    The city councilperson who personally escorted her around town introducing

    her

    to voters when she first ran for Wasilla City Council became one of her

    first

    targets when she was later elected mayor. She abruptly fired her loyal City

    Administrator; even people who didn't like the guy were stunned by this

    ruthlessness.

    Fear of retribution has kept all of these people from saying anything

    publicly

    about her.

    When then-Governor Murkowski was handing out political plums, Sarah got the

    best, chair of the Alaska Oil and Gas Conservation Commission: one of the

    few

    jobs not in Juneau and one of the best paid. She had no background in oil

    and

    gas issues. Within months of scoring this great job which paid

    $122,400/year,

    she was complaining in the press about the high salary. I was told that she
    < /BLOCKQUOTE>

    hated that job: the commute, the structured hours, the work. Sarah became

    aware that a member of this commission (who was also the state chair of the

    Republican Party) had engaged in unethical behavior on the job. In a gutsy

    move which some undoubtedly cautioned her could be political suicide, Sarah

    solved all her problems in one fell swoop: got out of the job she hated and

    garnered gobs of media attention as the patron saint of ethics and as a

    gutsy

    fighter against the “old boy s’ club” when she dramatically quit, exposing

    this

    man's ethics violations (for which he was fined).

    As mayor, she had her hand stuck out as far as anyone for pork from Senator

    Ted Stevens. Lately, she has castigated his pork-barrel poli tics and

    publicly

    humiliated him. She only opposed the “bridge to nowhere” after it became

    clear

    that it would be unwise not to.

    As governor, she gave the legislature no direction and budget guidelines,

    then

    made a big grandstand display of line-item vetoing projects, calling them

    pork. Public outcry and further legislative action restored most of these

    projects -- which had been vetoed simply because she was not aware of their

    importance -- but with the unobservant she had gained a reputation as

    “anti-pork.”

    She is soli dly Republican: no political maverick. The state party leaders

    hate

    her because she has bit them in the back and humiliated them. Other members

    of

    the party object to her self-description as a fiscal conservative.

    Around Wasilla there are people who went to high school with Sarah. They

    call

    her “Sarah Barracuda” because of her unbridled ambition and predatory

    ruthlessness. Before she became so powerful, very ugly stories circulated

    around town about shenanigans she pulled to be made point guard on the high

    school basketball team. When Sarah's mother-in-law, a highly respected

    member

    of the community and experienced manager, ran for mayor, Sarah refused to

    endorse her.

    As governor, she stepped outside of the box and put together of package of

    legislation known as “AGIA” that forced the oil companies to march to the

    beat

    of her drum.

    Like most Alaskans, she favors drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife

    Refuge. She has questioned if the loss of sea ice is linked to global

    warming.

    She campaigned “as a private citizen” against a state initiative that would

    have either a) protected salmon streams from pollution from mines, or b)

    tied

    up in the courts all mining in the state (depending on who you listen to).

    =0 A

    She

    has pushed the state's lawsuit against the Dept. of the Interior's decision

    to

    list polar bears as threatened species.

    McCain is the oldest person to ever run for president; Sarah will be a

    heartbeat away from being president.

    There have to be literally millions of Americans who are more knowledgeable

    and experienced than she.

    However, there are a lot of people who have underestimated her and are

    regretting it.

    $ Addle ~/abc 61

    CLAIM vs. FACT

    • “Hockey mom”: True for a few years

    • “PTA mom”: True years ago when her first-born was in elementary school,

    not

    since

    • “NRA supporter”: Absolutely true

    • Social conservative: Mixed. Opposes gay marriage, BUT vetoed a bill that

    would have denied benefits to employees in same-sex relationships (said she

    did this because it was unconstitutional).

    • pro-creationism: mixed. Supports it, BUT did nothing as Governor to

    promote it.

    • “Pro-life”: mixed. Knowingly gave birth to a Down's syndrome baby BUT

    declined to call a special legislative session on some pro-life legislation

    • “Experienced”: So me high schools have more students than Wasilla has

    residents. Many cities have more residents than the state of Alaska. No

    legislative experience other than City Council. Little hands-on supervisory

    or

    managerial experience; needed help of a city administrator to run town of

    about 5,000.

    • Political maverick: Not at all

    • Gutsy: Absolutely!

    • Open and transparent: ??? Good at keeping secrets. Not good at explaining

    actions.

    • Has a developed philosophy of public policy: no

    • A "Greenie”: no. Turned Wasilla into a wasteland of big box stores and

    disconnected parking lot s. Is pro-drilling offshore and in ANWR.

    • Fiscal conservative: Not by my definition!

    • Pro infrastructure: No. Promoted a sports complex and park in a city

    without

    a sewage treatment plant or storm drainage system. Built streets to early

    20th

    century standards.

    • Pro tax relief: Lowered taxes for businesses, increased tax burden20on

    residents

    • Pro small government: No. Oversaw greatest expansion of city government in

    Wasilla’s history.

    • Pro labor/pro union. No. Just because her husband works union doesn't make

    her pro labor. I have seen nothing to support any claim that she is pro

    labor/pro union.

    WHY AM I WRITING THIS?

    First, I have long believed in the importance of being an informed voter. I

    am

    a voter registrar. For 10 years I put on student voting programs in the

    schools. If you Google my name (Anne Kilkenny + Alaska), you will find

    references to my participation in local government, education, and

    PTA/parent

    organizations.

    Second, I've always operated in the belief that "Bad things=2 0happen when good

    people stay silent." Few people know as much as I do because few have gone

    to

    as many City Council m eetings.

    Third, I am just a housewife. I don't have a job she can bump me out of. I

    don't belong to any organization that she can hurt. But I am no fool; she is

    immensely popular here, and it is likely that this will cost me somehow in

    the

    future: that's life.

    Fourth, she has hated me since back in 1996, when I was one of the 100 or so

    people who rallied to support the City Librarian against Sarah's attempt at

    censorship.

    Fifth, I looked around and realized that everybody else was afraid to say

    anything because they were somehow vulnerable.

    CAVEATS

    I am not a statistician. I developed the numbers for the increase in

    spending

    and taxation two years ago (when Palin was running for governor) from

    information supplied to me by the finance director of the City of Wasilla,

    and

    I can't reca ll exactly what I adjusted for: did I adjust for inflation? for

    population increases? Right now, it is impossible for a private person to

    get

    any info out of City Hall -- they are swamped. So I can't verify my numbers.

    You may have noticed that there are various numbers circulating for the

    population of Wasilla, ranging from my "about 5,000" up to 9,000. The day

    Palin’s selection was announced a city official told me that the current

    population is about 7,000. The official 2000 census count was 5,460. I have

    used about 5,000 because Palin was mayor from 1996 to 2002, and the city was

    growing rapidly in the mid-90’s.

    Anne Kilkenny

    August 31, 2008

    09.05.08 - 07:16 AM
  • 1545. Katy said:

    Sarah Palin is governor of a state that has a rape and incest rate 2.2 times above the national average and 25 percent of all rapes resulted in unwanted pregnancies.

    http://www.democracynow.org/2008/9/4/alaska_gov_sarah_palin_accepts_gop

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/09/01/palin-on-abortion-id-oppo_n_122...

    She opposes abortion for vicitms of rape and incest.

    09.05.08 - 07:17 AM
  • 1546. cat said:

    this has nothing to do with your post, which by the way, though I am not American I 100% agree with you... but I just wanted to say that after watching the edamame video, John TOTALLY reminds me of Aidan from SNTC. Sorry if that offends him :)

    09.05.08 - 07:18 AM
  • 1547. Anonymous said:

    Andrea - your comments were excellent and I couldn't agree more.

    I am an indpendant & have not yet decided who to vote for. Anytime that I voice that opinion to my liberal friends they look at me like I must be ill....surely they could not be friends with someone so stupid? Because thats how they see it - its their point of view or nothing. Obama is the great savior and McCain is evil. Things just aren't that clear cut people. They are POLITICIANS. They lie. They take money from bad people to support their campaigns. Thats how they got this far in the first place!

    I was fairly decided to go with McCain until he picked Palin. I just don't know that I can support a lot of her ideas. Banning books, etc., not allowing ANY sex education spending, no abortions even in the case of race or incest...she is just too extreme. Even Cindy McCain disagrees with her on those issues.

    And, I just have to say, I'm sooo sick of liberals making comments about those dumb "God fearin'" folks. I am Catholic. I am also well-educated. I hate how people talk about their lack of religion as an indication that they are intellectually superior.

    I also agree with all of the commentors that talked about the RNC's slams of Obama. Um, what did you expect them to do?

    Obama is a brilliant speaker. His family is beautiful and his wife is a snappy dresser. But, I don't really know what he stands for...we can't just LEAVE Iraq, the war can't end now - WE HAVE TO FINISH WHAT WE STARTED FOR ONCE. Change is great. But not only if it is for the sake of change. I need more.

    09.05.08 - 07:18 AM
  • 1548. Lauren said:

    Just had to copy this information from a news site I just read:

    The factually inaccurate and exaggerated speech bashing Barack from the lipstick wearing pit bull delivered at the RNC convention on Wednesday inspired 130,000 donors to give money to the Obama campaign.

    To the tune of $8 million in 24 hours!!!!!

    Wowsers!

    Who would've guessed that Sarah Palin would be such a great Obama fundraiser????

    An Obama campaign rep said they were on track to make $10 million by the time John McCain took the stage Thursday night.

    Wonder how the fundraising is going for the GOP these days?!

    09.05.08 - 07:19 AM
  • 1549. Anonymous said:

    I've been a faithful reader for years and I've never left a comment, but today, my eyes are full of tears of gratitude and I had to say Amen. And thank you.

    09.05.08 - 07:19 AM
  • 1550. Roxie in Birmingham said:

    Dooce, love your bog and I know you are so much smarter than to think think Obama is a "qualified or competent choice"? He has spent most of political career just running for one office and then the next but accomplishing nothing. Palin at least has some executive experience. And as far the stretching the truth, do you really think the Democract party is the standard bearer of truth? I would have thought as a woman you would at least give this woman a chance before completely dismissing her as incompetent. But the Democratic party has a history of completely dismissing women and one needs to look no further than the way Hillary Clinton was pushed aside for a far less qualified candidate. And if you want to talk about stomach churning let's talk about night at the DNC all hailed "Uncle Teddy" never mind the fact that he dismissed Mary Jo Kopechne to the icy waters of Chappaquiddick.

    09.05.08 - 07:20 AM
  • 1551. Jeanette said:

    EVERYONE PLEASE READ #988.....

    09.05.08 - 07:20 AM
  • 1552. Anonymous said:

    Heather, I can totally sympathize with your relations with your family on political issues. My family has slowly drifted quite far to the right, and I'm a pinko-commie liberal in their eyes. We generally have to avoid talking about politics to keep things civil.

    You bring forth some interesting food for thought, as do the people who commented on your blog entry. Palin is definitely not what I'd call an ideal VP candidate, but then again, my opinions are colored by the fact that I disagree with many of her stances on issues. The McCain/Palin ticket is a weak one, imho.

    Not that Obama/Biden is so very much better. Once again, we seem to be buying into the 2 party system, and it seems to be Republicans against the Democrats, when we actually have more than those two choices. People say you throw away your vote when you vote for a third party candidate, but if you are voting according to which candidate you can best live with, who best fits your beliefs and opinions so that you can in good conscience live with your vote, then it isn't wasted at all. More and more people are exploring other options--I hope they do look elsewhere than the corporate-backed Dems and Reps.

    Me, I'm going to vote Green.

    09.05.08 - 07:23 AM
  • 1553. A said:

    I fucking love you. Well said.

    09.05.08 - 07:23 AM
  • 1554. Anonymous said:

    1545. Katy said:
    And look at where you got the information..unbelievable!

    And what is the name of your web site??? Very nice name.

    09.05.08 - 07:24 AM
  • 1555. Kristen from Ma said:

    To David @ #1513:

    As a matter of fact, I've given away $300 of it, with another $300 to go. Yes, I could put that money to good use, but there are people who are hurting more than I am. All because of Bu$h and his cronies.

    09.05.08 - 07:25 AM
  • 1556. Nancy said:

    People, please! Instead of getting so bent out of shape over the opposing party that 'your head is about to explode', how about expending your energies towards supporting and voting for the party that best exemplifies your values and beliefs. I am already so tired of listening to the rants from both sides--it has almost become comical. It'a as if grown adults are choosing sides for an imaginary team in middle school gym class. Be secure in your own choice, and don't feel like you have to recruit your family, friends, and neighbors to your way of thinking.

    09.05.08 - 07:26 AM
  • 1557. Tara said:

    Just adding my "Amen" to the overwhelming chorus.

    For the record, for those who think this is just a bunch of Palin-bashing going on--my concerns have nothing to do with Palin's experience or lack thereof, or with any belief that she should be home with her kids, or anything like that. My concerns are ALL about the issues, and the fact that I strongly disagree with nearly all of the McCain-Palin ticket's positions on the issues. I find it terribly interesting that the RNC focused primarily on bashing the other side, while spending precious little time discussing the issues. Probably because they don't have good solutions for our problems--certainly not solutions that will get them votes outside the party faithful.

    I don't think Obama "shits rainbows and butterflies," as a previous commenter accused Obama supporters of doing, but I think he LISTENS, and he tries to understand the common needs of all of the people, and he wants to help us out of the enormous mess that eight years of Bush have landed us in. And for that, hell, yeah, he has my vote.

    09.05.08 - 07:27 AM
  • 1558. Natalie said:

    I couldn't agree with you more. Maybe the biggest fundamental difference between Republicans and Democrats is that the Republican's never seem to want to hear the other side - it's their way or NO WAY - and it's gotten this country into a lot of trouble. People are quick to jump on the Palin bandwagon, when in reality it was a terrible decision, made in haste, and one that could have unimaginable ramifications.

    I am also surprised at how many people out there, registered Democrats, who still won't vote for Obama because Hillary didn't get the nom. There is nothing that infuriates me more - than not to vote, or to vote for McCain simply because you don't like the man who is the face for the dems. What unites all of us good, civic minded, souls is the desire to make this country a better place - and you will never reach that by passively sitting by or by quite literally voting for more of the same.

    If anything, this election has lit a fire under my sometimes dragging ass to say - enough! One way or another the next 8 weeks are going to shape our lives - and I am scared and hopeful that the outcome won't be given to the barely liftable arms of John McCain and his out-of-nowhere pick for a running mate.

    VOTE OBAMA!

    09.05.08 - 07:27 AM
  • 1559. Melanie said:

    amen, sister!

    09.05.08 - 07:30 AM
  • 1560. M R Kelly said:

    I have high blood pressure. Not dangerously high but high enough that I need to take meds. Will you send me a check for $130 so I don't have to worry about paying for them?

    {{{{{crickets}}}}}}

    I thought so.

    09.05.08 - 07:30 AM
  • 1561. JennB said:

    "If you're not outraged, you're not paying attention."

    It's time for all of us to stand up for what we need, and I'll be damned if I'll let the Bush-Rove crew screw us for another 4 years. Vote, for heaven's sake. Vote. Get involved. This country is hell compared to where it was 8 years ago. Let's take it back!

    09.05.08 - 07:31 AM
  • 1562. Domestic Extraordinaire said:

    I am a conservative and this whole mess makes me vomit in my mouth. I hate that they just can't say Bush was wrong and that we need a change. I hate that they nominated Boobs for VP just because they are boobs. I get snide comments from friends that are upset with me that I am not voting the way the party is voting. Screw the party if this is the best they can do. I guess I am voting for Obama.

    09.05.08 - 07:31 AM
  • 1563. Anonymous said:

    I also agree that the healthcare system is a mess. What we do need, as perhaps a temporary fix is for people like you to be able to pool together to get the same prices as larger corporations. A socialist system IS NOT the answer. As for the poor family working 3 jobs? Their children most likely qualify for some form of medicaid/medicare or My Child. The fact is, many just don't take the time to apply becuase it requires a lot of paperwork & time.

    I really have a hard time finding sympathy for educated people that could get a job with a company that does have healthcare benefits but they chose to work for themselves instead. YOU MADE A CHOICE. I work at a job that I don't love, its ok, but not my life choice. BUT IT HAS EXCELLENT HEALTHCARE FOR MY FAMILY. That is why I work here. Its a sacrifice I have made for my family. Do you know that Caribou Coffee offers health benefits? My friend is a SAHM that works for a few hours while her children are at school for healtcare. Another friend works at 7-11 at night for the same reason. There are options.

    It shocks me that the same people that talk about the other government systems that are broken seem to think that they government actually has the ability to take over healthcare. Think about Danielle's story that you posted about recently. The little girl that was being left with her retarded brother & neglected....the "feral child." The little girl that had 2 visits from social workers come and make the call that everything was fine & left her in that terrible situation without following up? Yes, they are the ones I want taking care of the healthcare for me and my family.

    My husband has a chronic illness and needs tests and treatment quickly. I am not about to rely on the very corrupt, broken, lazy federal government to take care of this. I don't want to wait 6 months for an MRI. I don't want to be wait-listed to see a specialist. This is NOT the answer!!!

    09.05.08 - 07:32 AM
  • 1564. Anonymous said:

    To Jenn B:

    IF YOU THINK IT'S THAT BAD, THEN MOVE OUT! GO LIVE WITH THE TERROISTS THAT SUPPORT OBAMA. GO AHEAD, I DARE YOU!

    OR,

    You can stay hear and continue spouting the same nonsense obama is..nothing!

    09.05.08 - 07:34 AM
  • 1565. Anonymous said:

    Sorry, but I just HAVE to respond to this particularly stupid comment...

    93. Meg said:
    "you don't have to see the massive abuse of the welfare system everyday. I grew up in an inner city environment. When you see it every single day--watching people lazily collecting their monthly check without working an ounce--it does start to wear on you. Truly it does."

    DUH You see so much of people out of work continuing to collect welfare because your country is DESCENDING INTO POVERTY. Wake up! Check out all the international measures of poverty - you have declined rapidly over the past 20 years! And this is while much of this time your country has been under republican rule. Also you have gone from being top of the leader board on education to somewhere like 20th behind Slovakia in the same time period.

    "And honestly, while I respect everyone's opinions, its our election, and I don't care who Canadians or Australians hope to win. They don't vote here."

    Yeah but we live on the same planet your govt is screwing up with it's selfish and destructive foreign policy, environmental policy, economic policy (yeah we feel the impact of Wall Street here don't you know?) We feel it when fannie may and freddie mac shake. You are just confirming the complete selfishness of the right wing America!

    " Oh, and one more thing--Global Warming? Yes, its a very scary thought, but lets not forget that its a theory, yet unproven. To be fair, thats not MY personal opinion, thats the opinion of many, many experts in the field of climate change. Just throwing that out there! "

    Lot's of stuff we rely on everyday is theory. But it's been pointed out time and time again that the balance of opinion is definitely in favour of warming -in a study of 2000 papers independently audited the vast majority said it's happening. Creating doubt is too easy. You find a handful of 'experts' who are on the lunatic fringe and then you can go back to making you oil friends nice'n rich. Think about it ... who finds these experts and who's making money out of it. Put two and two together - you are being led by the nose by big money. Who's making money out of global warming theory ... noone! that's why it's called "an inconvenient truth."

    You really do epitomise all of the ignorant and arrogant thinking associated with the American right at the moment.

    09.05.08 - 07:35 AM
  • 1566. Monica said:

    I get sick to my stomach every time I see a woman saying she's voting for McCain. Those of you who posted about that you know he's anti-Choice and isn't God, are you ignorant? These next president will swing the Supreme Court and leave them weighted down for decades with a right wing ideology. Roe v. Wade will be overturned and your daughters, even if you are now only 20 years old yourself, will not have the option to make reproductive decisions for themselves.

    My party, the Democratic party, trusts you as an individual to make your own decision about reproduction. McCain/Palin would also like birth control pills, IUDs, etc. deemed as abortificants. What does that mean? It means you can't get effective birth control, you can't elect to have an abortion and you and your new infant are on the hook for any medical costs incurred.

    The Republicans should practice what they preach - let people create their own destinies and stay out of our private lives.

    09.05.08 - 07:37 AM
  • 1567. Jeanette said:

    Thanks for making it so obvious....VOTE MCCAIN

    09.05.08 - 07:37 AM
  • 1568. julie said:

    I love your blog and read it religiously. I do not consider myself a rep or a dem as I agree with certain points for each party....but I do not believe in socialized medicine. I see illegal immigrants receiving better healthcare at the county hospital than I sometimes receive. As DSM stated: "is the healthcare system broken? no. certainly out of whack, but not completely broken. would all your commenters really want the same people that run the DMV running our healthcare? the $300/month you are currently paying for Leta's insurance is far less than the amount that your taxes would increase under universal healthcare. Also, the quality of care would go down" and I have European friends that will attest to this.

    I see those without 'benefits' working the system over as hard as they can...your on welfare and popping out more babies so you receive more benefits - I dont understand!!!!! I do not have children because I am an intelligent woman who realizes that to do so would put me in financial hardship, but I suppose I could and then get myself on welfare! This thought process does not make sense to me!!! Just because I can procreate does not mean that I should! I understand the concept of helping those that are less fortunate and giving them a hand up, but I do not understand supporting those who make bad decisions and are lazy. Instead of just doling out $$ to those that are less fortunate - how about giving them the skills and the education to take care of themselves..I know that these programs exist - but are not taken advantage of..honestly, most people would rather sit around and get a check rather than learn to be self-sufficient.

    Lastly, I do somewhat take offense to your lumping all republicans and conservatives into one broad stereo-type. They are not all evil and war-mongers. Please remember that.

    09.05.08 - 07:37 AM
  • 1569. Vanessa said:

    I just had this discussion with my DH last night. But I gave up when he started ranting about the people who sit on their hineys all day but want money from him for doing nothing.

    Can't we have a party in this country that supports family values AND the idea of helping others??

    09.05.08 - 07:38 AM
  • 1570. Jen said:

    I hope the thousand plus comments here have given you the ego boost and fan support that you need.

    Personally I find it rather hypocritical that you whine about $300/month private insurance but have the luxury to have run a successful business from home that asks that you write a short essay a couple days a week, take funny photos of Leta, Chuck and Coco (which I enjoy mind you), shop on etsy, and jet off to SFO for a weekend of concerts and booze... So successful that Jon has the luxury to do the same. Not that I have anything against that lifestyle and in fact, think it's fucking GREAT that you guys have achieved such success, but when you go and 1) suggest that people in the Republican party DON'T want to help people or 2) position yourself to be some righteous holier than thou bc you want the government to take everyone's money to help others, but are apparently not bright or service-minded enough to realize that there are plenty of ways you can do this YOURSELF, (hello, without govt intervention) then apparently you are spending much too much time surfing the internet... which, by the way Al Gore invented, right? So that must mean he's right about global warming too, eh?

    09.05.08 - 07:38 AM
  • 1571. Anonymous said:

    Oh my God monica, they finally got you!

    09.05.08 - 07:39 AM
  • 1572. Jenny said:

    Andrea,

    I don't recall telling anyone to be insulting.

    Here's a saying that may help you understand my point.

    "Bad things happen when good people stay silent."

    1529. Andrea said:

    Jenny
    I have a hard time giving any credibility to someone's thoughts when they are laced with bitter insults blatantly calling me an idiot for having a differing opinion. I don't think I am the only one. Have an opinion, yes. Voice it, absolutely. But if you expect to inspire change, insulting those who are different from you will get you nowhere.

    1527. Jenny said:
    There are a significant amount of "Don't get angry / Don't voice your opinion" comments on here.
    ????
    Politicians make decisions that affect your life.
    More people need to recognize this and support, loudly, their choices.

    09.05.08 - 07:42 AM
  • 1573. Sk8rAl said:

    Here, here!!

    09.05.08 - 07:42 AM
  • 1574. Angela H said:

    WWWooooo-Wooooo You go girl. I am so tired of just letting things go. I've been the nice girl my whole life...never wanting to hurt ANYONE'S feelings. But hello??? It's time. I so agree with you. Well said.

    09.05.08 - 07:45 AM
  • 1575. Scarlett said:

    I wasn't going to post because there are already so many comments, but regarding the experience/qualifications issue, some numbers courtesy of the U.S. Census Bureau (you can look them up at http://www.census.gov/):

    Sarah Palin--eight years as mayor of Wasilla, population 9,780

    Barack Obama--eight years as state senator of Illinois' 13th District, population 728,530 (this excludes the +/- margin of error of 19,659)

    Sarah Palin--1 year, 9 months as governor of Alaska, population 683,478 (46th in the U.S.)

    Barack Obama--3 years, 8 months as senator of Illinois, population 12,852,548

    Obama could be more experienced, and I wish he were, but to say that Palin has more experience and is more qualified is simply false. The numbers don't support that assertion. Obama has represented larger and more complicated constituencies and has done so at a national level. Palin has no experience in the national arena.

    09.05.08 - 07:45 AM
  • 1576. Joe said:

    Since when does college equal success? It is that elitist attitude that will be why Obama will lose. I will clutch to my religion and guns and my chain of auto body shops who employ 164 people who don't have a college education, some not even a HS education. I provide insurance for 734 people at a cost much greater than $300 per person, and it is total BS that you can't find insurance for Leta, you're just not looking hard enough. I have 3 employees who's children have the same condition from the "back to sleep" campaign. I gladly pay the $1043 a month per child to provide insurance for them. Maybe if you cut back on gallivanting around the country drinking yourself into a stupor you could afford proper insurance for your daughter.

    But you go ahead and vote for Obama so he can raise my taxes. I am a small business owner who's company makes more than $250,000, not brings home more, but grosses more. I want to fly you, who brings home an estimated $40,000 a month (yes, we poor hicks without a college degree can read the WSJ) to Kansas where you can tell the 11 employees that I will have to layoff why you think that they should have gone to college so they could be smart like you and offer them the welfare you think is so great. Where do you think the money will come from? I can't raise my prices enough to cover what Barry says he will take. I am terrified. I don't sleep at night. The 41 people who rely and me and the salary and insurance I provide them plead to me in my dreams not to layoff their mommy or daddy. Thanks for making me feel so good today about the business I have built. I didn't realize I was so fucking stupid. I'm glad I had you, the educated one, to put me in my place.

    09.05.08 - 07:46 AM
  • 1577. Hes said:

    Sing it Sister!

    Love you, love your family, LOVE your dogs.

    Kisses!

    09.05.08 - 07:48 AM
  • 1578. rachel said:

    Nicely put. And to all the people who said that they are going to leave your site and never read it again and how dare you state your opinion, huff, huff...really? Sometimes it's healthy to step out of your comfort zone and watch and read and listen to things you don't necessarily agree with. That's how you learn. Life is too short to live in a bubble.

    09.05.08 - 07:52 AM
  • 1579. Jeanne said:

    Exactly - fucking exactly. Thank you for putting it that way.

    09.05.08 - 07:53 AM
  • 1580. Juliekaye said:

    Amen, Sistah!

    09.05.08 - 07:54 AM
  • 1581. Anonymous said:

    Joe - I too am a small business owner and am voting for Obama. Fact of the matter is taxes are going to increase at some point for all of us because of the money we've borrowed from China to fund the current wars. It's just a fundamental truth, we're spending more than we're bringing in and as a small business owner I'm sure you know that's a recipe for disaster. Both McCain and Obama have offered to cut taxes on various parts of our population (Obama is $1K on families earning less than $1K, McCain to keep Bush's tax cuts on the upper earners).

    Let's all be honest, the days where Democrats were tagged "tax and spend liberals" and Republicans believed in "small government" are gone. Things aren't that simple anymore. Bush has grown our national government enormously and has racked up the most debt of any President in our history. Clinton balanced the budget and left a surplus.

    It would just be nice if us, the citizens of this country, could get real, be honest with each other and stop falling for the same bullshit the parties fling at us like Pavlovian dogs.

    09.05.08 - 07:54 AM
  • 1582. Anonymous said:

    Republicans don't want to help people? Check out Cindy McCain and all she has accomplished. What has Michelle Obama done that even equals that?

    09.05.08 - 07:54 AM
  • 1583. Tina said:

    Oh my God. You hit the nail on the head with this post. Will you marry me?

    09.05.08 - 07:55 AM
  • 1584. Anonymous said:

    I meant to say Obama's tax cut is $1K per family earning less than $250K per year

    09.05.08 - 07:55 AM
  • 1585. Velvet Verbosity said:

    I think this is my second time commenting. The only other time was to try to win the Wii, cause, you know, I could use one.

    Anyway, a friend and I were discussing McCain and Palin the other night. Specifically the frightening closeness in the polls between Obama and McCain. We realized right away that saying WTF?! with our eyes all big wasn't going to change the fact that at least half of America seems to be, uh, stoopid. And that scares the shit out of me.

    I live in a highly liberal area, but once in a while I return home for a visit and all I have to do is spend 30 or so seconds in a local store to be reminded how Bush was elected, and then RE-elected.

    The really REALLY scary part is that you can't even REASON with the people who would vote for Bush or McCain. Just try to have a reasonable debate with them. Gahead. Try.

    09.05.08 - 07:55 AM
  • 1586. Anonymous said:

    straight up liberal bullshit...

    09.05.08 - 07:56 AM
  • 1587. Anonymous said:

    #1582 - That's a joke right? Michelle pulled herself up, got a college education, was a highly south after lawyer who did community service rather than take a huge paycheck. Cindy McCain inherited her money, which is fine, I'm sure she's a lovely person but why do we have to like one and hate the other?

    09.05.08 - 07:58 AM
  • 1588. Anonymous said:

    Velvet----get over it! it was 8 years ago....Is this the only statement libs can make....bush cheated..wa wa wa.....grow up

    09.05.08 - 07:59 AM
  • 1589. Diane said:

    Amazing post Heather! As a Canadian with affordable healthcare, it amazes me that Americans don't stand up and demand that their country provide this for them! For the love of all that is holy - good healthcare is a right not a priviledge and is deserved by all not just those with 6 figure incomes.

    The world is watching! Go OBAMA GO!

    09.05.08 - 07:59 AM
  • 1590. DJK said:

    http://mrsahab.blogspot.com/2008/09/change-through-useless-legislation.html

    09.05.08 - 08:02 AM
  • 1591. Amelia said:

    Boy, I'll bet you're going to have oodles of fun reading all these comments. Thanks for speaking up, its given me the encouragement to be more forthcoming about my political hopes on the web, and maybe just maybe, it will encourage someone to really make a change for the better. Obama '08

    09.05.08 - 08:02 AM
  • 1592. Adrienne said:

    Just one more comment to say HELL YEAH!

    I'm so proud of you for posting this. And for all the silly republicans who think that we are all mindless sheep supporting Obama because he is a great orator or has charisma or some other silly notions...We DO in fact pay attention to the facts.

    The next president will be chosing a few Supreme Court Justices. It's conservative enough thank you very much. I don't need an anti-choice, pro-abstenince only, anti-feminist choosing anymore.

    Healthcare...as Heather pointed out, it sucks. McCain wants us to "fend for ourselves", Obama actually wants to CHANGE THE BROKEN SYSTEM.

    I could go on and one...but you get teh idea. We aren't all dumb shits won over by smiles and hope

    09.05.08 - 08:02 AM
  • 1593. Anonymous said:

    #1587 The argument wasn't about who got their money and how...Cindy Mccain has traveled all over the world with medical teams to help treat people in third world countries who otherwise would have died or been horribly disfigured. What community service did Michelle perform? Why are liberals always so vague?

    09.05.08 - 08:04 AM
  • 1594. Magnet said:

    Heather -

    Dooce is such a breath of fresh air and you are HOT! (sorry Jon)

    I hear you, but they are all nut-jobs. From one with no experience and a VP pick with doll-hair. To a true American hero who should join Chuck Yeager and just tell war stories.

    I live in Washington state and I work hard for what I have, but already pay over 40% in total taxes, drive on terrible roads, and barely make it.

    Taxes are what is killing America, we must have a national tax that is charged when we spend, not when we earn or save.

    I hear you, but let's get rid of the everyone else first system and take care of America.

    09.05.08 - 08:04 AM
  • 1595. Anonymous said:

    to 1588:

    here we go with the community service again...maybe she should run for president and then we can fix the community..because that's all the experience he or she has.

    Also to Scarlet: you said-

    "Barack Obama--3 years, 8 months as senator of Illinois, population 12,852,548" HE SPENT THE LAST 2 OR 2 1/2 YEARS OF THAT 3 YEARS RUNNING FOR PRESIDENT!!!! THAT GIVES HIM 145 DAYS AS A US SENATOR...WHAT DID HE ACCOMPLISH? nothing

    09.05.08 - 08:04 AM
  • 1596. Jane said:

    THANK YOU!!!! More working, sane moms need to speak out about this bullshit. I have two young kids and work full-time as an economist and I can say without hesitation that this woman in NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM represents me or my family. It's not that she CAN'T do it all it's that she SHOULDN'T do it all. She SHOULD put her family first. It's not a woman thing; it's a parent thing.

    She is disgusting and she made me (A MODERATE) run as far away from McCain as I possibly could. Nothing has EVER made me so mad politically and I've been active in politics my entire life.

    09.05.08 - 08:05 AM
  • 1597. Anonymous said:

    While you are entitled to your opinion and can type whatever you want on your blog, I don't come here to be lectured on politics - from either side. Please stick to the funny family anecdotes - you do that so much better.

    09.05.08 - 08:06 AM
  • 1598. Anonymous said:

    I think you're probably going to re-think your political stance after you evaluate what giving strangers the majority of your paycheck would leave your own family with.

    I went to college. I took out student loans. Anyone can take out student loans. Those most qualified for federal student loans are within the lowest income bracket. I also worked hard in high school to get good grades and earn scholarships. I have been working since I was 16, and saving my money. I'm 22, I graduated from college in three years, I'm working a minimum-wage job with no benefits, and I'll still have my student loans paid off in the next three years. My family is not well to do, but we have always gotten by and with no help whatsoever from the government.

    How we did this:

    1. WE GOT JOBS
    2. WE SAVED OUR MONEY

    Maybe if these people on welfare had waited to have children until they had enough income to provide for themselves, we wouldn't be paying for them today. I work in retail, and I see people everyday buying things that are not necessary for their survival. If they would save their money, as meager as it is, they would have no problem paying for the necessities of life.

    09.05.08 - 08:08 AM
  • 1599. Elizabeth said:

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. Amen, Amen, Amen. I live in St. Paul so I needed this post more than you will ever know.

    09.05.08 - 08:09 AM
  • 1600. AmyH said:

    perfect. and so true. You really did a good job of laying it all out there. How anyone could argue those points is beyond me.

    09.05.08 - 08:15 AM
  • 1601. Anonymous said:

    I think I love you. Well said.

    09.05.08 - 08:17 AM
  • 1602. Dana said:

    Amen. A few years ago my husband was laid off from a teaching job. He decided to go back to school. During the two years he was in school, we had to buy our own insurance. Freakin' expensive premium plus a hefty deductible. We didn't qualify for the state insurance program because we hadn't been uninsured for long enough. We both went to college (top-rated private liberal arts). We both went to graduate school (top-rated big 10). We were not lazy layabouts. When we have to pay the equivalent of our not-so-small mortgage to have health insurance, mostly so I can stay on my sanity pills, well, it is just fucked. We only survived those years because of unemployment and the generosity of my parents.

    09.05.08 - 08:18 AM
  • 1603. Ami said:

    You've put into words here what I've been feeling for months now. Thanks for pointing out this fact-check article. Ah, the power of rhetoric. It confirmed my suspicions of exaggeration in so many of the Republicans' claims. Can politics and truth ever go hand in hand? And will we ever realize that our own greed and self-centered attitudes will lead to our downfall? I just don't understand how people can complain about all the ills in our country (and our world) but refuse to sacrifice and work to help alleviate them.

    Anyway, thanks for a great rant. It helps to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.

    09.05.08 - 08:19 AM
  • 1604. Anonymous said:

    Obviously the you missed the Clinton administration. They had eight years to fix the health care crisis. Didn't happen.

    09.05.08 - 08:21 AM
  • 1605. Catrina said:

    I'm a very right ended girl voting for OBAMA!!!!

    09.05.08 - 08:22 AM
  • 1606. Chris Lowry said:

    Why can't we all just get along. Its quite frustrating. Surely, somewhere, a government not made of idiots will get elected.

    I'm british. We are about to lose Gordon Brown, and get David Cameron. Gordon Brown came in as Prime Minister, and the economy collapsed. Not exactly his fault. But riding on his tide of bad press comes our version of the Republicans: David Cameron. And all either party does, in either country, is snipe.

    I'm quite impressed with Obama, for when he said "this topic is out of bounds" regarding Palin's daughter. Let's hope that integrity will continue into his reign in office, and be taken up by other members of your, and my government.

    What you wrote on the end of your post was perfect: "in an attempt to convince themselves that their behavior and their policies are not in direct violation of the teachings of the God they think put them in power".

    As a Christian, I do just have to say - why do these people have such wool over their eyes? Why are we stuck in a world where to be a Christian means you murder abortionists, foul up the planet and treat gays with distain? Obviously you are not into the Jesus thing, but you know His teachings well enough to be confounded, as I am, by such blatant idiocy.

    Let's hope that the Christian with a brain, a social conscience and a refreshing honesty turns out to be everything he appears.

    Bless y'all,
    Chris

    09.05.08 - 08:23 AM
  • 1607. DH said:

    I was not impressed by Sarah Palin to start with. Now she has been trotting out her baby, why, to make her seem more "womanly?" To show us that she didn't have an abortion? That poor child should have been at home (or a hotel, somewhere) in bed, sleeping, not in a stadium with all that noise until that late at night. Poor kid.
    So which is it Sarah, family first, or politics?

    09.05.08 - 08:24 AM
  • 1608. Brook said:

    "PLEASE. TAKE MY FUCKING MONEY."

    Indeed.

    I volunteer at a food bank, and it kills me to see how humiliated people are to have to ask for help. People who work two or three jobs, and still can't make a paycheck feed their families. People who have to wait for hours in the ER just to get antibiotics for their kid's ear infections, because they can't afford insurance and rent. People who show up with food they can't afford to give when they find out you are sick.

    09.05.08 - 08:28 AM
  • 1609. Anonymous said:

    the liberals are just pissed because the republicans are going to be the first party to put a woman in the white house. the dems weren't able to make it happen. and please don't be so naive to think that just because an article was put out by the ap means that it is somehow neutral and fair. it reeks of a liberal bias. step away from the kool-aid people

    09.05.08 - 08:31 AM
  • 1610. Meredith said:

    thank you, heather, for speaking up.

    i read this site daily, and this is the first time i've been compelled to comment. so i mean it, absolutely.

    thank you.

    09.05.08 - 08:31 AM
  • 1611. Lisa said:

    Awesome! Very well put.

    09.05.08 - 08:32 AM
  • 1612. Anonymous said:

    Oh, Gyszel. Don't you see the beautiful irony here? You say:

    "There are so many other reasons to disagree with you, but this is the classic example of Libs beleiving the Govt must "save", "rescue" and "make our choices for" us, and Conservatives believing in the goodness of man and that individuals have the right to choose how to live their lives and spend their money."

    You're complaining about the government trying to make choices for us, but you want them to be able to force me to have a child I do not want? You apparently don't believe in the "goodness of man" enough to let me be responsible for my own body.

    09.05.08 - 08:33 AM
  • 1613. dayna said:

    both candidates are cfr pawns. write in ron paul.

    09.05.08 - 08:34 AM
  • 1614. Ellen from Ireland said:

    Hi Heather, great post as usual and I hear you all the way over here in Ireland. We are watching the election and very interested. Because America is such a big country things that happen there affect us here in Europe. When your banks lend money to people with bad credit ratings for mortgages and then they all default it has a knock on effect here and our interest rates rocket here in Ireland and in Europe too. I personally find your elections more like a soap opera. It seems unreal to me. That somehow it does not matter who is the face of the party as whoever is picked is only a front, a puppet for the party. Same ideas rehashed and dished out all over again. I know Obama has not much experience and I would vote for him if I had a vote but I believe that although the American public like the idea of voting for a president like him they will choose McCain. The safe option. America is a big player in the world but like you said does have to remember that it is not the only country in the world.

    In Ireland, Uk and France, not sure about the rest of Europe but I think the same, we all pay a nominal fee from our salaries every month, $50 perhaps and all medical bills, hospital bills, surgery bills and medication in hospital is free to every citizen. And if you cant afford it you are given a medical card which entitles you to the exact same thing. If the public hospitals are full up you are put into a private hospital with no charge. Your country should change its health policy. Put money into free health care not war.

    09.05.08 - 08:35 AM
  • 1615. Anonymous said:

    #1612-If you don't want a child...use birth control so you won't have to have one. "Responsible for your own body" includes taking measures to not become pregnant.

    And no, the government shouldn't have to save everyone...because they would tax the hell out of us! Free healthcare? IT ISN'T FREE- where do you idiots think the money for that comes from???

    09.05.08 - 08:37 AM
  • 1616. Anonymous said:

    Love your blog...scared of all the liberals reading it.

    your biggest conservative fan

    09.05.08 - 08:38 AM
  • 1617. Anonymous said:

    Michelle Obama ran Public Allies in Chicago, the University of Chicago and the city's planning and development office. All jobs that offered far less pay than she could have earned in the private sector.

    09.05.08 - 08:41 AM
  • 1618. Anonymous said:

    Read comment No. 988 and 989.

    Also, all of us Republicans aren't horrible people for God's sake. I don't think i could talk about Democrats as hateful as you did Republicans, Heather. I actually thought you might be a fun, nice person to hang out with, but maybe not so. Are you as funny and nice to folks who's opinions are different than yours?

    Oh and by the way, I don't have a college education, I came from a middle class white family of democrats and i work my ass off and i help others with my money. I don't think it's a good idea to have the government tell me i have to give my hard-earned money to somebody on welfare that isn't even trying to get a job. Some people feel entitled to have things given to them. Why can't they work just like i do?

    I really liked you up until today. Needless to say, i will be back to reading your blog because you are funny and i enjoy reading about your life. I just didn't enjoy reading how ugly you can act towards others. Nice example to set.

    09.05.08 - 08:41 AM
  • 1619. Cristie said:

    Umm...#1548 (Lauren): Last time I checked, perezhilton.com is not a "news site", unless you consider the National Inquirer as legitimate news. You just quoted Perez Hilton word for word and tried to pass it off as a credible news source.

    ALSO: As others have already said, McCain has kept his word and is doing the public finance thing. Obama said he would, but now has backed down from that. Since McCain did that, people can no longer donate to his campaign. Since Obama backtracked on his word, you can still donate to his campaign.

    #1514 (Andrea): Thanks. This isn't an election for prom king!

    09.05.08 - 08:41 AM
  • 1620. Anonymous said:

    McCain-Palin 08!

    09.05.08 - 08:42 AM
  • 1621. Anonymous said:

    Read this: Like Heather, Judith Warner totally gets what is so outrageous about the Palin pick, and she says it well. http://warner.blogs.nytimes.com/?8qa

    09.05.08 - 08:42 AM
  • 1622. Anonymous said:

    #1615 - Bush, Palin & McCain want birth control banned - start reading the newspaper fella

    09.05.08 - 08:43 AM
  • 1623. Tony said:

    Amen sister. If I were a woman, I'd be offended that the Republicans nominated this woman. It is like they are saying "Look, a vagina! You should vote for us."

    09.05.08 - 08:44 AM
  • 1624. Amy said:

    Re. 1060. from Anonymous who said: "Sorry but there is no need for Europeans, Canadians and Australians to be responding to this post. Who cares what you think? You don't vote here! You don't live here - your opinion doesn't matter to us. Sorry." 09.04.08 - 06:50 PM

    You've neatly summed up U.S. foreign policy. Your disregard for the opinions of your neighbours and friends and allies is offensive.

    We comment because we care, deeply, what happens next.

    We comment because the U.S.A. does not exist in a vacuum. We comment because we live on the same planet as your policy-makers. We comment because the results of your election have an impact on all of us. We comment because we are part of the same global community. We comment because we live here too.

    We comment because we love you.

    09.05.08 - 08:45 AM
  • 1625. Anonymous said:

    #1622 cite your source.

    09.05.08 - 08:46 AM
  • 1626. Brat said:

    AMEN!

    09.05.08 - 08:47 AM
  • 1627. Anonymous said:

    #1622--And what source of liberal media told you that crock?
    Funny, birth control has been around for years, yet people have been getting abortions for years. Condoms are our friends, people! Responsible for our own bodies, people!

    09.05.08 - 08:48 AM
  • 1628. Anonymous said:

    you just lost a dedicated reader.

    09.05.08 - 08:49 AM
  • 1629. Anonymous said:

    #Like all the Democrats saying, "Oh look! An African American! All you African Americans vote because he is African American!" If people are voting on that shallow of a basis, they have more problems...

    09.05.08 - 08:52 AM
  • 1630. Anonymous said:

    Hey Heather, How about thanking God or "the universe" as you call it for the freedom to speak freely and openly about your opinions of this fine country!

    The liberals are the most ungrateful group of people on the planet.

    09.05.08 - 08:53 AM
  • 1631. Val said:

    Wow, heavy post today. While I have lots of respect for John McCain and his devotion to America, George Bush's last 8 years in office have completely f**ked up the reputation of Repbulicans far and wide.

    As a Democrat with an all conservative family I too walk on eggshells whenever we discuss politics. And, while I will probably vote for Obama, I do worry about my taxes being raised and the government going further into debt.

    http://www.firstclasstohell.com

    09.05.08 - 08:54 AM
  • 1632. Anonymous said:

    comment #1629 is aimed at #1623 by the way

    09.05.08 - 08:54 AM
  • 1633. Tonya said:

    I was wondering how long you could hold this in... Let's hope there are more of us than there are of them or we are all screwed!

    09.05.08 - 08:54 AM
  • 1634. Anonymous said:

    Thank you for sticking up for those of us who are trying but getting nowhere..i'm a single mom with 4 kids..one has mental issues..one is almost deaf and getting ready for his 4th set of tubes..one has asthma and allergies so bad she is usually at home sick instead of enjoying being 15..i work full-time and no health insurance at all..thanks for speaking for us god bless...

    09.05.08 - 08:55 AM
  • 1635. mslieder said:

    Good Gawd almighty! You just said everything I was thinking. You go girl. And you go Obama!

    09.05.08 - 08:56 AM
  • 1636. Anonymous said:

    I remember reading one time how much it hurt your feelings (maybe not exactly your words) to read some of the hate mail you get. Take a lesson from that. I am a loyal reader to your blog. Yeah, its YOUR blog and you can write what you want, but you know I guess now I know how you felt back then. You probably just offended half of your readers. But I guess it doesn't matter to you. You've got the deal of a lifetime now with your website and all. Wonder if you would have done as well financially if you lived in China or Russia, or any other country? Hmmmmmmm.....America....freedom...wow. Ya'll hate this country so much, go live somewhere else.

    09.05.08 - 08:56 AM
  • 1637. shinystuff said:

    Ugh. I was so angry when I heard about the appointment that I feared a stroke! Palin's appointment shows another choice made with an appalling lack of judgment. Trying to talk to my mom about it--my dear, intelligent, Republican mom--is impossible, which both saddens and angers me. How can she believe all of the crap spewed by the McCain campaign? How can she think that the annointing of Palin as VP nominee might lure me to the Republican party? I'm baffled. Baffled, and pissed!

    09.05.08 - 08:57 AM
  • 1638. Barb said:

    I love your blog. I'm well aware of your liberal (not being used as a swear word LOL!) leanings. Because I admire you so much, I read the blog today even though I am a staunch republican and was afraid maybe I wouldn't like you anymore (kidding, just kidding). Anyhow, I too have asked myself if McCain is the best "our party" has to offer and have considered for the first time in my life voting democrat.

    I again asked myself when Palin was selected what the Republicans are thinking. She is no where near being qualified to run this country should something happen to McCain. However, I really don't think Barack is either. When you consider the amount of experience he has, I truly think the best choice for the job when you look strictly at being qualified would have been Hillary.

    My point is that even though I am a stauch republican, some of us really are capabale of looking at the whole picture. Some of us are capable of making an intelligent decision based on qualifications of candidates and who will best serve the entire country.

    I also think the country should look at who we vote for at the senate and congressional level, because I truly feel those are the real decision makers. The president is pretty much a puppet.

    P.S. Did I mention how much I love Chuck! Now there's a thought...Chuck for President!

    09.05.08 - 08:57 AM
  • 1639. Mignon said:

    I've got in-laws that are so far up Rush and Bill O'Reilly's asshole, all their flashlights smell like sh*t. So they spew those extremist arguments at dinner and I have to stay silent, because the only response I can muster with my mouth full of elk stew is, "that's stupid." And it is stupid, but the problem with arguing with stupid is that it makes you look stupid.

    09.05.08 - 08:57 AM
  • 1640. Anonymous said:

    Mignon that's because you are stupid.

    09.05.08 - 08:59 AM
  • 1641. Anonymous said:

    Your attitude is exactly why nothing ever gets done in this country. Keep stirring it up. I've been reading you for years (though I think you jumped the shark awhile ago) but I'm deleting you from my favorites now.

    09.05.08 - 09:00 AM
  • 1642. Cheryl said:

    I too grew up in a family that not only encouraged me to go to college, but paid for it as well. I have a job that provides me with health insurance. I fully understand helping others, but unlike you, I can't afford to have more taken out of my pay check to help others. As it is I have JUST enough to pay my bills, put food on my table and stock a little (very little) away for retirement so I don't have to ask the government to help me later.

    09.05.08 - 09:00 AM
  • 1643. Alexandra said:

    Bravo!

    09.05.08 - 09:02 AM
  • 1644. Kristen from Ma said:

    I'll say it again: Ron Paul: racist, sexist, classist. NOT what this country needs.

    09.05.08 - 09:02 AM
  • 1645. Seriously said:

    OMG - where do comments like this come from - "Bush, McCain, Pulen want birth control banned. Start reading the paper fella." Ummm.. what paper do you read? That's the most stupid thing I've read throughout these comments.

    The second thing I find horribly offensive is from Natalie - "and I am scared and hopeful that the outcome won't be given to the barely liftable arms of John McCain and his out-of-nowhere pick for a running mate."

    Natalie, do you have any idea whatsoever of why John McCain cannot lift his arms? Perhaps you need to read up on history before you make such an insensitive, spiteful remark. And how does it make a difference if our president can lift his arms? The man suffered tremendous pain, agony, etc. to keep America free and this is what is said about that sacrifice? Good lord.

    Heather, I enjoy your site tremendously and would not stop reading just because of your political views. That is what makes America strong. However, I do think if you feel strongly enough that you would gladly give your fucking money to people who need health insurance - ya know - we don't need socialized medicine in order for you to do so. There are lots of organizations out there that would gladly and thankfully accept your donations right now.

    09.05.08 - 09:07 AM
  • 1646. KAS said:

    Heather,
    Thank you. A million, billion times over, thank you.
    I suppose that like everyone else I too will share my story here, however briefly.
    I am 22. My husband is 24. We have been together since I was 13 and he 15, and love each other deeply. We have a young son who was born in March of last year. We have both attended community college; I dropped out to give birth and raise my son to an extent. My husband continued on and managed to graduate (and is the first out of his entire family). Because of red tape and stupidity higher up, my husband could not qualify for financial aid and instead had to get numerous student loans just to complete the years he spent at college. To top it off, because of this, we have no hope of either of us being able to afford to go to an actual university afterwards, at least not for several more years.
    Last autumn, we were in a car accident that left us without a vehicle. Because the economy was in a downturn, nobody would co-sign a loan for us to get a used car, and the only way we could find appropriate financing for our combined not-so-great credit was to find a deal on a new car that was part of a company's attempt to get first time owners into a car. We needed the transportation to get us both to work, and so we are now some extra $20,000 in debt. My husband has a part-time job, as do I (he makes $10/hour and I make $15/hour), but we cannot afford childcare and in this economy we are terrified of leaving our jobs to find new ones. Being jobless means we will be farther behind than we already are - and when one factors in a phone bill, an electric bill, a car payment, insurance, rent ... We have no left over money at the end of the month. As it is, we buy groceries thanks to food stamps and we have the state medical card, but these things will only do so much good: if I report to them that I am now employed as well, we will lose our food stamps and likely our medical coverage, but will not be able to afford proper insurance and groceries.
    We are stuck in a rut that I believe only Obama cares to fix - after all, the Republican nominees seem to think that we are simply inconsequential bugs on the wall. Having to worry about groceries is bad enough; I have no intention of having to worry about our medical insurance, too.
    Thank you so much, Heather, for saying what I think has been on the minds of SO MANY people for the last eight years, and for bringing to light the concerns we have about yet another Republican White House. You are an amazing person.
    And you are still totally invited over for drinks if you're ever in Illinois.

    09.05.08 - 09:08 AM
  • 1647. Jessica said:

    THANK YOU. You have put into words what I have been feeling but couldn't articulate. I have been watching female friends become "fans" of Sarah Palin on Facebook and I want to scream at them, "What, are you crazy?" So what if she is female and a hockey mom? She is not qualified for the job, and with all that's going on in her family, I don't know how she won't have a hard time with giving 100% to any job. I'm going to send my friends the link to this post.

    09.05.08 - 09:08 AM
  • 1648. Anonymous said:

    From a lifelong Republican who is voting Obama and agrees 110% with everything you just said I had to comment on something off subject. Our son was diagnosed with plagiocephaly in 2006 at the age of 3 months but we have no problem keeping him insured through United Healthcare. Infact, we have an incredibly awesome healthcare plan that covers most of our family's medical costs (which is a lot between my diabetic husband and having had a premature baby). The only thing they would not pay for was his helmut to re-shape his head because they saw it as "cosmetic" (stupid, I know) but everything else I have no problem getting him covered for.

    09.05.08 - 09:09 AM
  • 1649. Heather B. said:

    I could/should write an entire essay in response to this but I will attempt to keep it brief and not so angry like. All I'm going to say is that I just got back from being 5,280 feet above sea level and screaming my ass off in the middle of a stadium for Barack Obama. I returned home to talk to a friend of mine who flew out to the Twin Cities for the RNC and he's all "whooo! Sarah Palin" and I'm like are you fucking kidding me?? Like really? So as you can see the next several weeks are going to be a true test for my relationship with various friends and family. Perhaps it's because I come from a DC party politics background that I become so pissed off by people who cannot understand basic things like the necessity of health insurance or why reproductive choice isn't always a bad thing. Shit pisses me off.

    Also here's a story that will have you running around the house after your head explodes:

    I live in upstate NY and on the radio the other day the announcers asked if for woman, the decision of McCain to add Palin changed who they would vote for in the election. NOT based on issues but solely based on the fact that she has breasts and they have breasts and so does it change anything. The first girl to call says that it DEFINITELY changes things for her and that she will most likely be votiing for McCain now because of Palin. When asked if she knew anything about what Palin stood for the girl said "Ummm, no, like not really".

    And then I died.

    09.05.08 - 09:09 AM
  • 1650. Anonymous said:

    Read Comment No. 1576 from Joe. Thanks Joe. You said it better than anyone else on this whole rant.

    09.05.08 - 09:10 AM
  • 1651. Anonymous said:

    To those of you who say people who aren't proud of America should move to another country I ask this: If there is a moment when someone in your family does something that causes you to not be proud of them, do you ask them to leave your family or do you try and fix the problem?

    09.05.08 - 09:10 AM
  • 1652. Shamon said:

    Writing this from London, UK where we are all looking at Palin and going "WTF?"

    09.05.08 - 09:13 AM
  • 1653. Anonymous said:

    #1646 maybe you should have waited to have children until you could afford. your "not so great credit" is your own responsibility and the fact that no one would co-sign a loan for you speaks volumes. how about taking responsibility for your own decisions.

    09.05.08 - 09:14 AM
  • 1654. Jenn said:

    I honestly think politics is more divisive than religion. I just read some comments about the upcoming election and I can't believe how mean, nasty and belittling people are to people of a different political party. The name calling itself is incredible. If someone thinks differently than you, are they really an idiot? How is that going to open an honest dialogue?

    "Well, you're wrong! You're an idiot."
    "Oh my gosh! You're right! I am an idiot! I see the light now! Thanks for bringing it to my attention. I'm going to join your political party!"

    I want no part in discussing politics if people are going to only get angry and not listen to each other.

    Here are some comments that I read that express my feelings perfectly. Sorry I didn't reference with the numbers.

    "I get a little weary of one group that says that the other group is all bad. "

    "I'm sick of politics. period. I'm sick of "us against them" thinking."

    "The problem I see with political discourse in this country is the obsession with MY SIDE IS RIGHT and YOU, SIR, ARE HITLER!"

    "I am undecided but see the liberal hate as just as ugly as the right wing hate."
    "What worries me about both traditional partisan sides is the tremendous hate each has for the other. Their respective adherents seem to focus all their energy into feeding that hate and blaming the opposite side for all the problems of the world instead of, you know, just solving them."

    "Sick of Democrat vs. Republican. Sick of mudslinging to win campaigns"

    "The problem is partisan politics - it leads to mudslinging and anger and refusal to even listen to other opinions! If there weren't labels perhaps we could actually listen to what the candidate has to say."

    "I've just finished reading 1000s of comments and I'm about ready to puke. I can't believe all the ignorance I've just read so I felt compelled to comment again. I think I've read only a handful of truly objective comments that don't jump on one side and trash the other. "

    "People, please! Instead of getting so bent out of shape over the opposing party that 'your head is about to explode', how about expending your energies towards supporting and voting for the party that best exemplifies your values and beliefs. I am already so tired of listening to the rants from both sides--it has almost become comical. It'a as if grown adults are choosing sides for an imaginary team in middle school gym class. Be secure in your own choice, and don't feel like you have to recruit your family, friends, and neighbors to your way of thinking."

    "Why can we not allow people to have views that differ from ours without demonizing them or thinking they're stupid or being duped?"

    "Why can't we all just get along"

    09.05.08 - 09:14 AM
  • 1655. Phhhst said:

    Thank-you Heather for saying this. The collective dysfunctional coping stategies of the far right are mind boggling. And sad.

    You are now the first woman to make my list. This is huge for you as I find Brad Pitt cheesy and narcisstic.

    09.05.08 - 09:16 AM
  • 1656. ben said:

    i think you should get your parents to read:

    www.eatmypress.com

    09.05.08 - 09:16 AM
  • 1657. Anonymous said:

    Natalie-About Mccain not lifting his arms? President Roosevelt couldn't lift his legs, but he was one of the finest presidents this country ever had. Again, uneducated liberals spouting off on things they know very little about.

    09.05.08 - 09:17 AM
  • 1658. Diana said:

    Obama does represent change. Change that has been tried and failed in other Countries.

    Less is more especially in government. Let's save small and large businesses that provide jobs, insurance and just support so many families.

    09.05.08 - 09:17 AM
  • 1659. Sara said:

    My husband didn't go to college and he makes more money than I do and I DID go to college.

    09.05.08 - 09:18 AM
  • 1660. Jan said:

    I think it's interesting that the Europeans want us in the same boat as they are with skyrocketing unemployment and with some countries experiencing recessionary times. Of course they are glad their governments are taking care of them.

    I think every politician gets a rude awakening after they are elected and have to try to live with the way government really works. All their bright and shining ideas are mauled by a Congress that get uglier every year because the two parties can't work together. You want to pass that bill? Just tack on these little gimmes that I want. We don't need to debate on the individual merits. Politics has just gotten so incredibly hateful.

    09.05.08 - 09:19 AM
  • 1661. gillthebean said:

    I couldn't agree more with this post. I've heard more than a few soundbites from the McCain campaign on the radio over here in the United Kingdom and all I can say is, please please please America, don't put another Republican in the White House. Thank you. God bless.

    09.05.08 - 09:21 AM
  • 1662. lisab. said:

    Thanks very much for this. I have a 21 year old daughter who is preparing to vote for president for the very first time. We raised her to be a progressive, but she is trying to get issues and ideas straight--to be informed. I have sent her the link to your post--just the AP story link is invaluable.

    Love to hear your voice!

    09.05.08 - 09:22 AM
  • 1663. Anonymous said:

    Yeah, England has worse gas prices then we do.

    09.05.08 - 09:22 AM
  • 1664. Jessica said:

    I agree that we need health care reform, but giving the gov't a bunch of money to handle it for us isn't the best solution. Since when does the gov't to anything efficiently? People don't rave about gov't agencies and their ability to solve problems. Get the gov't involved and you are sure to create more problems.

    Heather, why don't you find a needy family that can't afford healthcare and give them some money every month? Cut out the governmental middle-man and give it to the family directly. It will be quicker and more effective and the look of appreciation in their eyes will do a lot more for you than seeing an itemized deduction on your check stub. In doing so you will be exemplifying the change you want to see instead of waiting for politicians to do it for you. Even if Obama gets elected, needy kids won't see a dime for many years and there's no guarantee that Obama will get his ideas past congress.

    I have tossed a life jacket to those in need many times. I've left groceries on peoples doorsteps, I have anonymously paid utility bills, bought xmas toys for families, I buy food for the animal shelter... It's faster and more efficient to BE THE CHANGE than to wait for the gov't to distribute your money and hope it gets to the people you wanted to help.

    Be part of the immediate change instead of sitting in front of your TV waiting for Obama to change the world. Neither candidate is going to dawn a cape and save the day.

    I am a guest ranch owner, a business woman and a college educated citizen. I paid my own way through college using gov't loans and I held a job (sometimes two) during that time. My parents were immigrants and never took a dime from welfare. If we couldn't afford it, we didn't have it. My parents wanted 5 kids, but decided two was all they could comfortably raise. They didn't give us money, instead they taught us now to work and solve problems. We were once considered "needy", but we worked ourselves out of it by making good decsions, working hard and saving our money. We didn't sit around and wait for handouts or wait for the gov't to fix our problems and send us money. WE. WORKED.

    I own a gun and I like it that way. I respect your choice to not own a gun. but if a coyote or a bear came anywhere near my family or animals I will shoot it. I don't want the gov't telling me how I can protect myself. We aren't going to have less murders by taking guns away. Crazy people will find a way to be crazy regardless of their weapon.

    09.05.08 - 09:23 AM
  • 1665. Anonymous said:

    Hello? Anyone remember the Clinton administration? Where is all of the healthcare reform promised then? Why didn't Bill do something about BinLaden when informed about his intentions? And he was elected twice! So shut up about what a state this country is in...it all started with Clinton.

    09.05.08 - 09:24 AM
  • 1666. Neely said:

    Heather, you rock. You rock solid, and you're dead on. As a liberal democrat who also happens to love my country, it kills me to see what has happened in the last eight years - and trying to watch the RNC didn't help. Si se puede!

    09.05.08 - 09:24 AM
  • 1667. Amelia said:

    Heather, thank you so much for this. It's beautifully written and captures all of the fear and rage I feel about this entire situation.

    09.05.08 - 09:25 AM
  • 1668. Tee said:

    Oh, please. That Palin is qualified actually hurts my bleeding heart. TRULY, it does. The woman, at best, is a liar. And, I'll say it now just like I said it when Edwards ran for President with a sick wife and small children: "Stay at home and tend to your business."

    09.05.08 - 09:26 AM
  • 1669. Amy said:

    I started to cry when I read this.

    Keep it up, Dooce.

    09.05.08 - 09:27 AM
  • 1670. Kat said:

    Ladies, you have got to get out there and work for it. Print a canvassing list or contact your county democrats to get one. Then put your babies in stroller, and walk your neighborhoods. Let people know you - see you, understand why it's so importantly to have their support.

    My family is also considered 'fully insured' - that costs us $900/mo in premiums (and that's our portion after the employer) + an additional 14K/annually for things our insurance refuses to cover (our son has mild cerebral palsy). Our son (now 4) spent 2 years bouncing around on waitlists to see a neurologist for his official diagnosis, since my husband's employer changed insurance plans a couple times - then the company was bought out. During that time, he was in therapy. However, when the test results came back - SIMPLE test results, we found out that our son had a seizure disorder (manifests mostly during sleep). Because of this messed up health system, our son will likely have an impacted developmental disability that could have been prevented by use of medicine. And we were insured, and we pay heavily for it. The only upside to the changes, was that we ended up not hitting the life time max on our policy and getting dropped all together (our son's bills are now at $2M - and he's only 4). Something MUST CHANGE. PLEASE!!!

    Please, make calls, knock on doors - there's even postcard writing campaigns. Visit Obama's website and events for more. We cannot sit back and let slash and burn politics rule our country because of petty differences.

    09.05.08 - 09:28 AM
  • 1671. Matthew Weaver said:

    Your post is offensive. Maybe this passes for intelligent conversation on you blog and intended to support Obama, if so, you make a great representative.

    Obama and his followers, such as yourself, make clear why the Democratic Party loses so many elections. We had Clinton as a respectable nominee, now we get the Dear Leader.

    McCain made a bold choice with Governor Palin. She is head-and-shoulder's above Obama is class, credibility, and integrity. On top of that, she has more experience!

    Keep up you offensive posts as they are great references to show just what is wrong with Obama and how he fails to lead.

    Matthew
    http://www.theindependentview.com

    09.05.08 - 09:29 AM
  • 1672. Anonymous said:

    # 1664 - Jessica

    Best post yet. Congrats on your success.

    09.05.08 - 09:30 AM
  • 1673. Anonymous said:

    #1670- You are naive to think socialized medicine will fix all of your family's medical problems.

    09.05.08 - 09:30 AM
  • 1674. Anonymous said:

    These are the Republicans, in their own words. Talk out of both sides of your mouths much?

    http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?videoId=184086

    Hilarious, and yet, makes me want to puke that you people believe what they're saying.

    09.05.08 - 09:30 AM
  • 1675. Margaret said:

    Amen. Thank you.

    09.05.08 - 09:31 AM
  • 1676. Let's form a new country said:

    I so understand. I was really angry after Palin's speech Wednesday night and the response of the audience. I saw the audience being swooned by this woman just as so many were swooned by Bush Jr in 2000. It is really frustrating.

    09.05.08 - 09:32 AM
  • 1677. Sherri R. said:

    I'm glad to see that I am not alone! You have described how I feel about this situation in a way that I still haven't been able to, and I thank you for that. I still can't talk about this ticket without going batshit crazy, so I'm gonna let it go here. But once again... thanks!

    09.05.08 - 09:32 AM
  • 1678. Lindsay said:

    Dooce, I know plenty of people who are not white nor from a middle class family and that made it through college. There is such a thing called a loan that most American college students get even if there families can afford it. It is sad to me that you think that poor families don't even give there kids the ability to dream. Because after all that is what America is about making dreams into reality. Not government forcing their dreams on us. Do you really think if there is a social program that provides free college education these poor families will go to college. I am sure that most of them would not. I say this because either people grow up valuing education or they don't. The ones that value it will go and the ones that don't will go on with there lives no matter if you are rich or poor.

    09.05.08 - 09:33 AM
  • 1679. Kat said:

    #1672 - The kids in IL that come from families making less than ours, are on a program called AllKids. Those kids do receive better care and support services than my son. Every week I speak with those parents - even the clinics love that they get paid timely and don't deal with near the red tape that they do with my Insurance company.

    So don't call me Naive. I've done my research, and we're living the nightmare of a broken system. YOU are the one that is clueless in this regard.

    09.05.08 - 09:34 AM
  • 1680. Kristi said:

    The thing I find so troubling is this: How naive is the thought that any money taken from you by the government would ever actually make it to those who needed help. The federal government is so wasteful already, to give them more tax dollars would just be throwing more money down a hole. So much better if the government would keep its hands off our money and let us help each other. I know that I would be able to donate much more to truly needy people (I am in Michigan, and some of my best friends are really struggling here) if I was able to keep some of the nauseating amount of money I send to Washington every year. Think about how much you paid in taxes last year. How many people do you think you could *really* help with that money?

    09.05.08 - 09:34 AM
  • 1681. melissa (rah! rah! lets throw $ at our problems!) said:

    Aww man, Heather!
    I don't want more politicians reaching into my wallet to pay for my health insurance (which I do not currently have) I just want affordable healthcare. We do not need our government to give it to us we need them to get out of our way!

    You either believe our country is great because of it's government or that it is great because of it's people.

    Stop the frivolous lawsuits that drive health care up...replace our current tax system so all working Americans (even those here illegally) are helping pay for their tremendous use of our hospitals, schools and health care. I welcome all who want to be here for a better life, lets just have their hard earned money contributing to our roads, governments, schools etc...all of which are facing tremendous difficulty staying afloat. If you saw the numbers/drain that illegal immigration (I welcome them here btw) is on our schools and hospitals and government/us you would realize more money and more programs will not fix things.

    Of course if Obama or McCain promised the cure for baldness and bad breath there would be those that cheered "U.S.A!" with tears in their eyes.

    ps
    I am not a republican
    I will not be voting in this election
    I wish you, a very smart, intelligent, humorous individual with fantastic taste in music :) would realize that both McCain and Obama could very well be our worst nightmare.

    I don't want to be European, I don't want to pay more than I already do in taxes (30%) because things are broken, lets fix WHY they are broken, not just throw more money at the problem.
    Throwing money at our problems has become a knee jerk reaction in this country and seems to result in more laws than actual change.

    Also, I am not a Palin fanatic but the frenzy over her resembles the same frenzy over Obama when he first came on the scene. He too was new with very little to show for himself but people were drawn to him regardless.
    If you cannot objectively see that I am so sad to say that I may be falling out of love with DOOCE...no! I will not give in, I will fight hard to not let politics come between your blog and I, I love you too much!

    thanks for the justin vernon tip...so yummy good!

    09.05.08 - 09:34 AM
  • 1682. Sarah said:

    Thank you, Heather. I woke up depressed yesterday morning over all of this. The current administration has been so successful at polarizing the country, and benefiting from the resulting animosity and distraction from important issues, that we are too busy jabbing at each other to focus on what should be obvious--for the past eight years, we have been horribly manipulated. Obama's speech moved me to tears, simply because he acknowledged this problem and expressed a desire to change it. The way that the right wing leaders of this country use a false representation of Christian faith and "family values" for their own gain should be appalling to everyone, especially Christians. The fact that Sarah Palin is female seems to be enough for many people to mask the fact that she is a Bush clone, just more extreme and possibly even more arrogant and divisive.

    09.05.08 - 09:34 AM
  • 1683. Sooboo said:

    Great post. And to all the haters, you come here and read free content, then have the gall to write things in the comments section to Heather that you would never say to anyone's face. That's some serious assholery right there, and does nothing to further your point about Mccain or Palin.

    09.05.08 - 09:35 AM
  • 1684. Danielle said:

    Thank you Heather. You said EVERYTHING I have been wanting to explain to certain members of my family. Thanks you. Thank you for being here.

    09.05.08 - 09:35 AM
  • 1685. Jenny said:

    Wow. Couldn't disagree more.

    Liberals LOVE this country -- the anger is proof of that. People don't get upset over something they don't care about.

    1636. Anonymous said:
    ...
    Hmmmmmmm.....America....freedom...wow. Ya'll hate this country so much, go live somewhere else.

    09.05.08 - 09:36 AM
  • 1686. Jeff said:

    One question that pretty much summarizes my original thought. Four years ago, those that didn't choose Bush created the division between people by doing the whole, "Sorry, we didn't pick him" website. This year, if you lose, will you do the same?

    Don't wait for a half-black president or a woman VP to lead you to hope and change because they're hollow promises on both sides. Hope and change don't come from governments. They come from people doing the right things day by day. Not the things they prefer...the RIGHT things.

    What are those right things? THAT'S the question worth pursuing...

    09.05.08 - 09:38 AM
  • 1687. Anonymous said:

    Great comment!

    1682. Sarah said:
    Thank you, Heather. I woke up depressed yesterday morning over all of this. The current administration has been so successful at polarizing the country, and benefiting from the resulting animosity and distraction from important issues, that we are too busy jabbing at each other to focus on what should be obvious--for the past eight years, we have been horribly manipulated. Obama's speech moved me to tears, simply because he acknowledged this problem and expressed a desire to change it. The way that the right wing leaders of this country use a false representation of Christian faith and "family values" for their own gain should be appalling to everyone, especially Christians. The fact that Sarah Palin is female seems to be enough for many people to mask the fact that she is a Bush clone, just more extreme and possibly even more arrogant and divisive.

    09.05.08 - 09:38 AM
  • 1688. Scott Murdoch said:

    Not surprising that there a kajillion responses to this one. I have to weigh in with my favourite part: "I get the feeling that people around the world are looking at this election as a gauge to see if America is finally ready to wake up and realize that we are not the only country on this planet... To my readers who do not live in America, who are not American, please know that there are so many of us here who are disgusted with what we have let happen in the last eight years and are doing everything we can to ensure that it stops."

    Thank you for saying that. I'm not at all surprised that there are many Americans who want to see change, but it's great to see that they also know there are other, equally important people living on this planet too. As a Canadian, watching the States is like looking at a society inside a snow globe, self-contained and unaware of the world outside. It's an easy trap to fall into, and with the wealth and military power that exists there, I don't blame those who do. But identifying so strongly with your nation's power, instead of realizing that the country is one of many that make up the global economy (and environment and aid and responsibility) can lead to isolated, blinders-on thinking that is not beneficial even to that country itself.

    Thanks Heather, another excellent post.

    09.05.08 - 09:38 AM
  • 1689. Sara said:

    I doubt my comment will even be read by anyone, but I just wanted to give you my kudos. I'd been thinking about possibly voting McCain lately (I KNOW, RIGHT?!?!) - not in a serious sense I guess, I was just weighing my options and trying to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Your blog entry brought me back up to speed with my priorities. On one hand, I'd like to think McCain WOULDN'T be "more of this." Then I read your blog and thought about Palin's support for abstinence-only sex education. THAT right there is the mentality I cannot let run my country. Thanks for the reminder.

    My family pays upwards of $800 a month for private insurance. Right now I can't pay for rent or food. We've had to prioritize food over insurance in the past, and as of right now, it's cost us more than a HOUSE (See: $100,000+ and rising) because we had to pay for a c-section and all of my mother's uterine problems out-of-pocket.

    Something is just wrong with that system.

    09.05.08 - 09:39 AM
  • 1690. Anonymous said:

    Love your blog Heather, but I don't come here for political commentary. Obama has no more real experience than Palin and he's the Presidential candidate rather than the VP. I agree with some of the commenters who stated that elections are more about charm and charisma now because most people are too uninterested or uneducated or unintelligent to actually care about policy.

    09.05.08 - 09:40 AM
  • 1691. Mindy said:

    Amen! You are absolutely right...so nice to hear someone else on the same side! (I believe I was raised very similar to you...I feel your pain!)
    Vote Obama 08!

    09.05.08 - 09:42 AM
  • 1692. Anonymous said:

    1690. Your just believing the lies then. Obama has FAR more experience, and far more education than Palin could begin to have. Do your research.

    09.05.08 - 09:43 AM
  • 1693. Sam said:

    Ms. Armstrong, please do not apologize for me to your international readers. We do not all feel the same as you do. Apologize if you feel like it but not for me. Thank you for your kind attention and consideration.

    09.05.08 - 09:43 AM
  • 1694. alicia said:

    I agree 100%, and your explanation was really touching. Thank you. Best of luck with your friends and relations.

    09.05.08 - 09:43 AM
  • 1695. Jenny said:

    Thank you, Heather. Seriously? I've never heard it put more clearly and convincingly. I can't say AMEN loud enough.

    09.05.08 - 09:44 AM
  • 1696. Jeff said:

    "The current administration has been so successful at polarizing the country"--#1682

    Wow...if you really believe that, then you've completely forgotten that "Sorry, we didn't vote for him" website and the "Jesusland" map. Because THOSE would've come from the current administration....right?

    I feel the need to state that I choose to not vote. So my comments are truly looking at it from the outside. And the one thing I can say with certainty is that Democrats and Republicans in government AND voting who have blood on their hands regarding the polarization of the country.

    09.05.08 - 09:44 AM
  • 1697. Madeleine said:

    Dooce, Thank you for making an exception and posting a political comment regarding Gov. Palin. My own greatest concern, is that she wants creationism taught in public schools as science, she would deny choice even in cases of incest and rape, she does not believe climate change is the result of mankind's abuse of the environment, and, the scariest by far, she believes God willed us to go to war with Iraq.

    Sarah Palin may be cool, fun, funky, tough and super smart. But we cannot afford to have someone with her lunatic fringe socially conservative beliefs a heart beat away from the presidency.

    09.05.08 - 09:46 AM
  • 1698. indievotes said:

    Good Lord! Another kool aid alcoholic obama supporter who trashes another woman for what? obama? You are a traitor to all women and I am disgusted that someone like you is a parent. Go ahead - raise your kids to be just like you, so that sexism can continue in this country. You should be ashamed of yourself.

    09.05.08 - 09:46 AM
  • 1699. Stephanie said:

    I'm only in the 1400's in reading these comments, so this may have already been addressed, but...

    #1448 said - The right to bear arms is a personal choice. IF you don't want a gun then don't buy one.

    Hmmm. Interesting point. Yet, many conservatives believe that the government should have a say in the right to choose? Don't want an abortion? Don't get one. Don't want gay marriage? Don't get married to another chick or dude, whatever the case may be.

    Unrelated to that moot point, I can't believe how many people feel that they can say, "write about this, not about that" or "you don't know anything about politics so keep your mouth shut." First of all, this is Heather's website and she can do with it whatever she pleases. Secondly, not to take away from Heather's knowledge of politics, (because how the hell am I supposed to know that based on one blog post), but what does the average American know about politics? I think the greatest thing about the volatility of this election is that people really CARE about the state of our country and the direction that we are headed. I am simultaneously excited and terrified by the PASSIONATE responses. Nothing CHANGES without HOPE for more.

    I don't think that Barack Obama is going to single-handedly "fix" our country in one fell swoop, but I have no doubt that he is inspiring so many to really care and learn and do more. I am voting for Obama, but I am also exploring ways to be a proactive citizen.

    As for his lack of "executive experience"? George W. Bush has been president for 8 years... 8 years of "executive experience." Would you re-elect him? I'll take what some believe to be "emotional" concern over the state of our nation over Sarah Palin's "executive experience" any day.

    09.05.08 - 09:46 AM
  • 1700. Anonymous said:

    I think Palin looks and sounds like Peggy Hill.

    And that makes me want to throw up, scream, and punchthebitchintheface. All at the same time.

    You should watch the Daily Show from last night, he talks about pulling the gender card. It's beautiful, really.
    Jon that is, not the card.

    09.05.08 - 09:47 AM
  • 1701. Karen said:

    Thank you so much about bringing this topic. I have been neutral so far as I am really not interested in politics. But just reading Palin's radical views about women scares me. For the first time- I am thinking- maybe my vote for Barack Obama matters- not for me- but for my daughter.

    I am truly disturbed by her saying "Even if my daughter is raped, I will not allow her to abort". I am not saying that abortion is the solution of everything. I am a religious person myself. I do not want to see my daughter being pregnant and taking her to the hospital for abortion. I do not think my God will ever forgive me for doing that. But I want my daughter to have her choice. I want her to decide if she wants to have the baby or not. That is pro-choice for me. It is her human rights to decide what she wants.

    However- when Palin used rape example- that was too much for me. She is a radical Christian- and we should be scared of any radical Christian as much as we are scared of any radical Muslim.

    I have decided- i will vote for Obama even though I know nothing about him. But I know he is not radical when it comes to my daughter's basic women rights.

    09.05.08 - 09:47 AM
  • 1702. Jennifer said:

    Petty, old, infuriating Republican convention.They belittle and deride, but never address the issues this election is about. Lying creeps. The fight's on.

    The reviews of Palin's speech are glowing; she's energized her party and put McCain in her shadow. But let's get real, she is an extremist that's completely disconnected from the country's mainstream values. And forget about calling her a champion for female voters.

    She's against SEX EDUCATION and ABORTION in the cases of rape and incest, even if the mother's life is at risk. Is that how she plans to progress women? Her eldest daughter's condition is the unfortunate manifestation of her beliefs. 17-year old Bristol, who's future has been stunted, was rendered dumb and defenseless because mommy Sarah denied her safe-sex information and reproductive options. Sarah Palin would send American daughters to school with eager young boys without any information on STDs and teen pregnancies. Yet, she expects young women to pay the price, even against their will or intentions, whether they can afford to or not. A sexist lunatic--twisted in her ideologies--is what she is.

    In place of equipping young hormonal people with the realities of sex, Palin thinks ABSTINENCE should be taught in schools--ideas that are completely out of sync with mainstream America today. Isn't that right, Bristol?

    09.05.08 - 09:48 AM
  • 1703. Anonymous said:

    When Democrats/Liberals whatever you want to call yourselves start talking about HELPING people I am always floored that you have such a disregard for the issue of abortion. To me that is THE only issue. My vote goes to whomever will stand up for the rights of the unborn children of this world who unfortunately are referred to as anything other than what they are a human being with a beating heart, a soul and the ability to feel. THAT is what I call scary...Obama believes in the MURDER (because that is what abortion is) of innocent babies.

    I will tell you this supporting the "choice" to abort children is a DIRECT violation of God and his teachings (I don't care what faith you do or don't practice).

    If Obama is elected God help us all.

    09.05.08 - 09:49 AM
  • 1704. jarman said:

    jon stewart will ease the pain:

    http://www.thedailyshow.com/video/index.jhtml?videoId=184086&title=sarah...

    09.05.08 - 09:49 AM
  • 1705. Cat said:

    Any woman who thinks Sarah Palin and the GOP have her or her family's best interests at heart is lying to herself. The Republican party has done nothing for three decades but enact legislation that directly or indirectly screws over women and their children, and they've shamelessly smiled and run their lying mouths about the importance of family values through it all. Now the same people who mocked and derided HRC three months ago are all about "feminism." Wake up, y'all -- they'll do and say anything to get elected. They don't really care about anyone except the big businesses who write the big checks.

    Thanks for saying this, Heather. :)

    09.05.08 - 09:50 AM
  • 1706. Edward Keithly said:

    Wow. Just wow.

    This woman knows more about politics than you , and probably more about mothering than you, and SHE is unqualified for her job?

    Suck it up, get a real job with real insurance,and maybe I'll feel for your child. The fact is that you DO want to take our money, that you and your liberalscum friends have not earned, and give it to worthless POS's who don't deserve it, all under some rubric of "help".

    Sarah Palin raises beautiful children, maintains a home, leads a state, and runs with the moose. You aren't qualified to carry her purse, and I think you know it.

    Can I get you a saucer of milk, MEOW!!!

    09.05.08 - 09:53 AM
  • 1707. ChaoticFat said:

    I have to agree with you 100%. Although I will be voting for Obama in November, I am very frightened and angry over the McCain VP pick. If in some twisted universe Palin becomes president, we would be so screwed. The GOP has sent this woman back to Alaska to study national and foreign policy to be vice president, does that make sense to anyone here? This woman is not ready or qualified to be the leader of the free world, and with her on the ticket that's a possibility.

    Be well, CF

    09.05.08 - 09:54 AM
  • 1708. Anonymous said:

    Oh my freaking gosh... thank you. I've always wondered if you would comment. i'm sending this to my sister right away, along with the whole Conservative family. God, they need to somehow get a clue. I've tried so many times and hopefully this will get through to them... And Allison, my sister is an OT, tell her, TELL HER (doesn't everybody in the medical profession know each other, can send msgs back and forth through brain waves?)... My sister should know better, but she is part of those modern guitar playin'- crazy evangelical church going- in the stadium- with the arms up in the air- kind of gals.

    09.05.08 - 09:55 AM
  • 1709. Sally Galveston said:

    You are sooooooo wrong.

    -----------------

    Sidenote 1:
    And as an American living in Europe for the last 20 years you are wrong that Europeans dislike America or America has lost its clout, respect or is looked on badly.
    Regarding your health insurance whining - in socialized Germany I pay $300 a month for health insurance (does not cover dental - that is separate), plus $15 per quarter, per person when we visit the doctor. Plus pay a share of the prescription costs, depending on the medicine.
    Do you want to compare income taxes? Or that I pay 19% added tax on everything I buy in wonderful Germany? Or that gas is about $9 a gallon (80% of it is tax.)

    Quit whining, you do not know how good you have it in America.

    Sidenote 2:
    And do you have to use gutter language when you write?

    09.05.08 - 09:55 AM
  • 1710. Megs said:

    Thank you, Heather for speaking out and saying what a lot of us think. Palin comes off to me as a freshman that has been invited to the Sr. Prom - so wanting to be a part of the in crowd - but still coming off as immature.

    I don't want this woman anywhere near any decision more complicated than whether Wasilla should have three or four traffic lights.

    09.05.08 - 09:55 AM
  • 1711. Joyce said:

    The one thing we need in D.C. is someone calm and sane with less "experience" in benefiting themselves and the rich through murder and deceit. All you folks worrying about "experience" should go watch "cake farts" on youtube.

    09.05.08 - 09:55 AM
  • 1712. Molly said:

    I not into politics at all. In fact, when I hear someone going on and on about the GOP or the crazy liberals, I run the other way.

    However, I feel the need to stand on my soap box for a moment. I am an undecided voter at the moment. I believe that both candidates are have some valid points but for the most part it's all talk an NO action. I don't understand how people can get so wrapped up in either presidential nomination. I think they're both full of smoke and mirrors.

    As for Palin, I was somewhat happy that they picked a "normal" person as opposed to someone who was born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Upon further investigation, I think given her current family situation, (and I am NOT saying she is a bad mother) she needs to devote more time to her family. A 5 month old child with Downs Syndrome and a pregnant 17 year old could really use a mother's guidance.

    You hit the nail on the head on our welfare situation!

    09.05.08 - 09:56 AM
  • 1713. Anonymous said:

    I am so tired of reading comments here that those of us who agree with Heather don't love this country or need to move. Don't you get it? My outrage comes from the fact that I DO love this country! For eight years, we have sat back and allowed shrill, war-loving cowboys to hijack this great country and spend billions of dollars a month to fight a war in Iraq, all while Jedi mind-tricking us into believing that saying we want better makes us un-American. It has to stop. I'm voting Obama.

    09.05.08 - 09:56 AM
  • 1714. Kathleen said:

    If you want to see how government run healthcare works just go to any Indian Reservation. It doesn't. I am Indian and will attest to that fact. People are DYING because of the beauracracy. The only way to get healthcare more affordable is through a stronger economy. The only way to a stronger economy is through LOWER taxes. More jobs through energy. Sarah Palin KNOWS energy. Check her record. This is the only way to go, not with the failed liberal policies of the past. I remember the Carter era. We were worse off thn we are under Bush.

    09.05.08 - 09:57 AM
  • 1715. Brandy said:

    I am completely inspired by the change that is sitting in your countries grasp. Hopefully the majority will reach out and take hold!

    The rest of the world awaits.

    Love from Canada!

    09.05.08 - 09:57 AM
  • 1716. Jeff said:

    And Edward succinctly defines the reason why a good portion of the Republican Party should never EVER breed.

    Either that, or he's from that godhatesfags website.

    09.05.08 - 09:59 AM
  • 1717. Karl said:

    Heather,
    Thank you for the opportunity to comment on posts such as this. It clearly demonstrates that you are of open mind.

    How do people here feel about the Democratic controlled Congress of the past 20 months?

    What Change is Senator Obama really going to bring? What abilities to change things has he demonstrated in his tenure as Senator?

    There is a lot wrong with this country and it is in need of dramatic overhaul ( maybe even an enema). This will require work from people on both sides of the aisle. What has Senator Obama done to reach across that aisle?

    And lastly to the world: the very last thing that America owes you is an apology. We do more to spread freedom, wealth, health and opportunity that all other countries on this earth combined. We ask for nothing in return. Not even gratitude. Some on this thread believe that despite all the good America has done for the world, we should feel ashamed.
    I myself am proud of my country and ALL of its citizens. We have made mistakes, and even in these times of trouble, we still are a beacon of hope, freedom and opportunity that the world emulates.

    09.05.08 - 09:59 AM
  • 1718. Nikki said:

    I was JUST thinking about you this morning, and thinking "please let Dooce speak up, maybe she can influence people to not vote for someone just because they have a vagina."

    I was scared before she came onto the scene. Now I'm downright terrified.

    I had the great fortune of living overseas for 3 years, in Prague (The Czech Republic.) I just returned in July 07. It was, to say the least, an eye-opening experience. I lived in a former communist country and I would often have conversations with my Czech friends that would end with them shaking their heads and commenting that we were supposed to be a "free country."

    Living in Europe, I saw the socialized health care in action. It was amazing, and it WORKS. It was absolutely unheard of and incomprehensible to my overseas friends when I'd say I'd gone years and years without insurance. The first time I'd had health insurance in almost 5 years was when I moved to CZ because they required it of everyone - EVERYONE - who lived there. You want a visa? You have to prove you're insured first. How sad is that?

    Anyway. My comment isn't all that well-organized, I've just been reading more articles about Palin and I'm livid. I just can't believe we, as a country, are here again. Thank you, Heather, for saying something and I really, really hope that what you say here will start an inner dialogue among your readers who are undecided or who wanted to vote for Palin.

    09.05.08 - 09:59 AM
  • 1719. Anonymous said:

    READ #1747!!!!

    09.05.08 - 09:59 AM
  • 1720. Liz said:

    Terrific. Well said, well edited.

    09.05.08 - 10:00 AM
  • 1721. Anonymous said:

    Here are some FACTS for all of you McCain voters:

    1. Ronald Reagan cut taxes...and then had to raise them SIX times because he didn't have a CLUE about the economy (sound familiar?). As a result, he left America with the largest debt in it's *history*!! Thank you "we're fiscally responsible" Republican.

    2. George Bush senior pledged "no new taxes"....and he RAISED taxes. Remember the famous, "read my lips" shit? Yeah, that sunk his second term, thank God.

    3. Bill Clinton raised taxes....on the top 2% of the wealthiest Americans. As a result, we completely paid down the deficit, had the BEST four economic markets in the history of our country (more millionaires were made during the Clinton administration more than any other time in history), and had a SURPLUS when he left office.

    4. Little Bush pissed it all away.

    So, just who has better economic policies? Come on, quite being a damned Republican lemming. They've been feeding you the same line of bullshit for almost 50 years.

    If you want war and a recession, vote for McCain. If you want peace and prosperity, vote Obama. History has proven me right.....because if we do not learn from history, we are DOOMED to repeat it. WAKE UP people!!!!!

    09.05.08 - 10:02 AM
  • 1722. A Virginia Stay-at-home mom said:

    So called feminists out there are really showing who they are. They don't support women, only LIBERAL ones. NOW has really angered me with their spokesman saying, "She might as well be a conservative man". Gloria Steinem's article that she is the wrong women angered me as well. Sarah Palin represents the modern feminist. That women who can believe whatever they want to believe without fear of what anyone thinks. I believe NOW and Gloria should be commended for what they did for women, but it is outdated. The fact is they never gave her a chance and it is sad. It is also disgusting how the media has attacked her w/out giving her a chance. I am an independent that leans conservative. I never agreed with Hillary Clinton's politics, but I was dismayed b/c I felt she was being railroaded, just as Sarah is now. She gave a great 1st and 2nd impression. She now has to prove herself in the debate, on talk shows, and on the campaign trail. To minimize her candidacy is close-minded and a mistake. So go ahead with your outrage, I'm voting for a reformer, you can stick with the pen*s ticket.

    09.05.08 - 10:02 AM
  • 1723. Angel1505 said:

    Call me whatever you wish but I believe I am like many Americans who aren't the far left or right. Conservative in ways and liberal in others. I believe in a woman's right to choose. I've got no problem helping people but I'm not sure the federal government can do that better than I can on my own. What I can't understand is that each party seems to believe that their way is the right way, the only way. Anything else is evil.

    Every argument I've heard from each side can be said about the other. I might agree that Palin is not qualified to be Vice President but what is it about Obama that qualifies him to be President? What exactly qualifies one to run for public office anyway? Experience, or lack there of, is more acceptable depending on which side of the isle the candidate comes from.

    Change, Change, Change...the platform on both sides. But what is so different about both sides pointing the finger at each other? Both sides whinning because they are being unfairly attacked. This country didn't just take a turn in the last 8 years. Politics in this nation have been on a downward spiral much longer than that.

    09.05.08 - 10:02 AM
  • 1724. Kate said:

    Thank you Heather. I know that you will no doubt draw heat for putting your political opinions out there, but there are those of us that will never go away because of it.

    This is the most important election of our lifetime. I've been scared for 18 months now that we'll continue on the course we've been on for the last 8 years. Absolutely terified in fact.

    That's why I'll keep fighting for Barack Obama to be our next President every day until Election Day. That's all I can do. If he doesn't get elected then we, as a country, deserve what we get.

    09.05.08 - 10:02 AM
  • 1725. Amy said:

    I usually stay pretty neutral on subjects like religion and politics to keep the peace, but I have to say it's getting really old to hear how our current president is the ONLY one who has fucked things up. I think we all have to remember who came before him in office and how his policies and procedures weren't exactly as forthcoming or helpful as some seem to think. Don't get me wrong, I'm not for/against either of them. But ignorance does beget ignorance.
    Good post - thank you for speaking your mind even if you did tone it down a bit.

    09.05.08 - 10:02 AM
  • 1726. Anonymous said:

    Sorry, #1719 was supposed to read "READ #1717". great comment.

    09.05.08 - 10:03 AM
  • 1727. malarson2 said:

    Never seen this sight before...it was linked on a political website.

    All I have to say is, yes, be outraged. Its a lot of outrageousness.

    But, don't get distracted...its part of their master plan. Take a cue from Obama yesterday when his quote about it was "I've been called worse on the basketball court."

    Being angry just gives them power. Use your revved up energy to register people to vote. Or just stand on a corner with a sign waving to traffic. Anything that makes you feel you are doing something.

    Bemusement - that's the reaction we should all be giving Sarah Palin. Its disarming and really that's the best thing we can do. Disarm them.

    Love Ya!

    09.05.08 - 10:04 AM
  • 1728. CincyLori said:

    BRAVO! BRAVO... now every BREATHE & GET ORGANIZED!

    I am a registered Democratic & passionate about the futre of our kids, our healthcare and the earth we live on. I consider McCain to be true American hero & was expecting a full court press from the RNC when he announced his VP nomination.

    ARE YOU F#@!~&ing SERIOUS????? The American hero and the idiot from Alaska? As a woman who care about politics and makes an effort to read, listen & surf on the issues this VP nod is unthinkable!

    Her insulting those of us that VOLUNTEER TO MAKE COMMUNITIES A BETTER PLACE WHEN THE GOVERNMENT FAILS THEM (Community Organizers). SHAME!
    ...pause,... the candidate has run to get a dictionary to look up the word "ALTRUISM".

    go to this link: http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/9/4/105623/5197/586/586233
    ENJOY!

    I have been teaching in the public schools 20 years and have MORE EDUCATION and MORE COMMUNITY SERVICE than this piece of work.
    She has a freaking bachelors degree in JOurnalism folks! NO MASTERS, NO EDUCATION ON BUSINESS, INTERNATIONAL POLICY OR LAW!
    Link:
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/09/04/palin-attended-5-colleges_n_124...

    This is who they want sitting across the table from North Korea? Russia? Pakistan?... I bet they're just shaking in their boots!

    It is an insult to EDUCATED SMART women EVERYWHERE!

    OBAMA - 08!!!!!!

    09.05.08 - 10:04 AM
  • 1729. JohnW said:

    Just because it says Associated Press on it doesn't mean that it is written without bias. There was one story last week that appear in the same place that contacted four sources analyzing Palin's selection in a supposed unbiased way. One was a maxed-out Obama donor, a second had contributed to the campaign and the other two had clear Democratic ties.

    But go right ahead and follow the Osssiah.

    09.05.08 - 10:04 AM
  • 1730. Athenae said:

    I love you. That is all.

    A.

    09.05.08 - 10:04 AM
  • 1731. Kim said:

    Now look what all this bickering has done to Chuck.

    09.05.08 - 10:05 AM
  • 1732. Anonymous said:

    "I am angry. I am infuriated. And I don't think I would be if Sarah Palin were a qualified or competent choice as McCain's running mate. But the fact, the reality is that she is not."

    I think I know what you meant to say:

    "I am angry. I am infuriated. I don't think I would be if Palin was a Democrat, or at least toed the line. But since that isn't the case, I will just ignore her experience, including more executive experience than Obama has even thought about and label her as incompetent."

    Good job! You alienated tons of readers.

    09.05.08 - 10:05 AM
  • 1733. Terri said:

    I am an independent woman who is also always being bombarded by my Republican family. I'm also furious by this misleading campaign. If Senator McCain is such a Maverick, why only AFTER he became the Republican Nominee did he change his position on immigration, drilling for off shore oil, Bush Tax Cuts to the same old Republican point of view. If he thinks taxes are what's hurting our economy and would be a disaster for the middle class, why would he even consider taxing my limited employee health care benefits ( See ABC website). After announcing Sarah Palin he hires the same consultant that he said unfairly smeared his family and himself in the 2000 election. And most importantly, he said the VP had to be ready to lead on day one. So what does he do when he is losing in Polls, he chooses Sarah Palin. This woman comes out Friday and tells lies about her reformer record. This woman needs to be TUTORED in Foreign Affairs by Senator Lieberman. And when most of America calls him on it. He calls us sexist. So I thank you for writing this. All I keep saying around my household is be afraid, be very afraid.

    09.05.08 - 10:06 AM
  • 1734. Cris said:

    Amen Sistah! What you said -- that's church!

    09.05.08 - 10:06 AM
  • 1735. jw said:

    YAY!!

    And thank you!

    09.05.08 - 10:07 AM
  • 1736. Anonymous said:

    If you think that article was written from a neutral standpoint, you still aren't over your hangover from a couple of weekends ago!

    I used to read the site every day, as I found it entertaining and fairly well written. However, after this post, I have officially removed your site from my favorites list.

    09.05.08 - 10:07 AM
  • 1737. Colorado Mom - Independent for Obama said:

    Good for you, Heather! It boggles my mind that there are people that are still so close-minded - they can't even open their minds to other possibilities out there. That is why I love Obama. When he said that we need to meet in the middle with the abortion issue, I couldn't be more proud. I worked in social services for a while, and believe me when I say that banning abortion is NOT the answer. Our country is having a hard enough time keeping track of the unwanted/abused children in our society - just read back to Heathers' entry about that feral girl in Florida who is suffering tremendously due to years and years of neglect. I can't imagine how many more of these children there would be if Palin and McCain got their way. We will find countless more infants in trash cans, toilets, and dumpsters, and that sickens me much more than abortion ever will. Educate those young, pliable minds! Palin has done exactly the opposite. And I will gleefully watch her wallow in her own karma. That is the reason, among others, mind you, that Obama is getting my vote.

    09.05.08 - 10:10 AM
  • 1738. Anonymous said:

    ummm....those griping about how the current president sucks? Do you know how government works? Do you realize the Democrats have outnumbered the Republicans in congress for YEARS? Do you know that it is truly CONGRESS who runs the country-and the president?

    Or is it too inconvenient?

    09.05.08 - 10:10 AM
  • 1739. Jillian said:

    You say
    "it's that his family couldn't afford to send him to college, or he came from a family that didn't know they should encourage him to go to college "

    Yes, if we all just went to college, everything would be great! That's why some people aren't making it--they forgot to go to college! There is no way that every person will become a college graduate, nor is that the dividing line between being able to pay for everything and poverty. Lots of people are not college material or do not care to go to college or do not need to go to college. Your argument is incredibly naive and doesn't make sense.

    Also, like others have said, what is stopping you from reaching into your own bank account to help people yourself? Perhaps you already do, and how sad would it be if you've written this post and don't already do that, but since you indicate you and your friends want to help and refer to "giving up more of my paycheck" go ahead and do it!

    I've read how thin-skinned you are about every perceived slight and how nasty you can get about such, then you go ahead and overtly insult many of your readers.

    09.05.08 - 10:10 AM
  • 1740. JoAnn said:

    Thanks for waking me up the Jim Kuhnhenn AP article makes some very good points.

    09.05.08 - 10:11 AM
  • 1741. Libba said:

    “Jesus was a Community Organizer — Pontias Pilate was a Governor.”

    09.05.08 - 10:12 AM
  • 1742. Shannon said:

    At the farmer's market this weekend, my sweet, meek, young mother friend went off so loudly about how sick she is of Republicans, and how she did not want her daughter to have to look up to a beauty queen. I think she ended by yelling the word Obama. It was a watershed moment and every moment for me afterwards has felt like the gloves are off. As for the Republicans, they have their heads so far up the asses of oil and gas that they can't acknowledge that burning fossil fuel is causing global warming- even though they are staking claims in the MELTING ARCTIC for the oil and gas buried there. Strangely, though, McCain does believe in global warming and has even sponsored legislation in the past. Not that he is taking any leadership on it now that he is trying to get elected: http://local-warming.blogspot.com/2008/02/obama-clinton-and-mccain-on-gl...

    I DO NOT KNOW WHAT I AM GOING TO DO IF THE REPUBLICANS GET INTO OFFICE FOR ANOTHER FOUR YEARS BUT I EXPECT TO SEE RIOTING IN THE STREETS.

    09.05.08 - 10:12 AM
  • 1743. Anonymous E said:

    If we truly desire to help, we must extend charity to the most helpless among us: the unborn human child, the elderly, the widow, the orphan, and those unable to help themselves.

    All help is worthless if we do not first honor life.

    09.05.08 - 10:13 AM
  • 1744. shonda said:

    Right on, Libba! You wrote the thoughts of my mind.

    09.05.08 - 10:13 AM
  • 1745. Allison said:

    Heather, you are so right. I don't think I've ever commented before, but I want to applaud you.

    A few previous commentors seem to think you are missing the point of the Republican Party. Sure, they claim they want small government. But they don't really...they want to make abortion illegal. Whatever you feel on that--pro-choice or anti-choice--that is NOT a small government move! Palin keeps talking about how her daughter "chose" to keep the baby...but she doesn't want anyone to HAVE that choice!

    And quite frankly, if you care about your children, if you care about the education they may (or may not under Bush and hopefully not McCain) receieve, their health, YOUR health, your ability to keep a job and pay for FOOD...it's absurd to vote for McCain.

    The fact that people are SO unhappy with Bush (lowest approval rating ever) yet are going to vote for McCain? Are you kidding?

    Thanks for posting this.

    09.05.08 - 10:14 AM
  • 1746. Anonymous said:

    Pilate only crucified Jesus because it was the majority vote of the crowd...a bunch of people yelling about something they knew nothing about.

    09.05.08 - 10:15 AM
  • 1747. Bill G said:

    What neither party realizes--or refuses to acknowledge--is that there are beaucoup Americans who are neither Republicans nor Democrats, but fall into the category of Republicrat or Demublican. And we're **so totally pissed off** at the leadership of both parties because we don't have a candidate running.

    I'm not really comfortable with Obama--has nothing to do with his blackness or anything else; I respect him for where he's come from, and what he's been able to accomplish in such a short time. I'm not really comfortable with McCain--I respect the man tremendously for his military service, and his many years of service to our country. I feel completely disenfranchised because I DON'T HAVE A CANDIDATE WHO REPRESENTS ME. And this reaches all the way down to state and local races.

    I would love to have a smaller government, and a stronger military. I would love to have a lower divorce rate, and fewer children without two parents, and fewer abortions, and more children born into homes where they're valued and protected and loved. I would love for more parents to be honest-to-God *parents* to their children. I would love for everybody to be able to see a doctor when they need to. I would love for everybody to be valued for their contributions to society. I would love for society to realize that plumbers and truck drivers and grocery stockers and surveyors and accountants and factory workers and, and, and --- all make valuable contributions to our American way of life.

    I would love for our political parties to honestly and vigorously buy into a policy of bipartisanship; to refrain from throwing rocks and insults at the other party; to actively seek opportunities to serve the American people, and not just their party.

    I would love to have a candidate that I could enthusiastically support, and vote for without a guilty conscience. But, it looks like that's not going to happen this year.

    09.05.08 - 10:16 AM
  • 1748. Lilit said:

    Delurking:

    Heather, you rock!

    to hotrod #201

    what a stupid redneck you are, "hotrod", go watch your movies made for idiots like you, and use spell check more often, "independAnt thinker" that you are

    the lady with three abortions - take some responsibility for once

    09.05.08 - 10:17 AM
  • 1749. Karl said:

    1737 Colorado Mom - Independent for Obama
    Abortion has never been more readily available or more affordable that it is right now. Still children are being neglected and abandoned.
    I am not in favor of the Federal Govt. banning abortion, but I am clearly informed enough to know that abortions availability doesn't improve our society's care for children! That is absolutely preposterous!
    Your logic is that if we are allowed to kill unborn babies, we will treat the ones that we don't kill better?
    My Logic:
    The States issue medical licences.
    Local officials are closer to the voters than federal officials.
    Let the States decide.

    09.05.08 - 10:17 AM
  • 1750. courtney said:

    I'm older than you and your demographic. It normally wouldn't matter. But I read your words, and I think: what will she say after she repeats this cycle eight times. Because if you think that what is coming out of the RNC has you leaning over the commode now, try hearing it after spending your adult life EXPERIENCING America's government, chosen by the people, eroding that which you believe America stands for.

    This crisis in America is not a Republican thing, though powered faster and harder under Republican government, nor a Democratic thing. It's about a country comprised of citizens who do not and will not realize the consequences of failing to put the least among us foremost. This is a country now almost completely composed of voting and non-voting citizens who DO NOT Think Globally, nor Act Locally. A country who will not act in outrage over the very idea of, oh - let's say - cutting Head Start funding over and over and over, preferring not to spend a dollar now to prevent the loss or cost of thousands of dollars in twenty years. Small example. Because Americans today are capable of being outraged by very little, other than "giving away my money" to "those people". (Poor, black, disabled, mentally ill, immigrant, new poor, old poor, WHATEVER.)

    America as a whole no longer cares how the world sees us because we don't care how we see ourselves, either.

    Be reading you in 2036.

    09.05.08 - 10:18 AM
  • 1751. Molly said:

    YAY, DOOCE!!

    09.05.08 - 10:18 AM
  • 1752. Jen said:

    Anonymous said:

    "When Democrats/Liberals whatever you want to call yourselves start talking about HELPING people I am always floored that you have such a disregard for the issue of abortion. To me that is THE only issue. My vote goes to whomever will stand up for the rights of the unborn children of this world who unfortunately are referred to as anything other than what they are a human being with a beating heart, a soul and the ability to feel. THAT is what I call scary...Obama believes in the MURDER (because that is what abortion is) of innocent babies.
    I will tell you this supporting the "choice" to abort children is a DIRECT violation of God and his teachings (I don't care what faith you do or don't practice).
    If Obama is elected God help us all."

    You are a Republican HYPOCRIT!!! You're all for "protecting the unborn," but you kill adults by sending them to war and the electric chair. You absolutely disgust me you religious ignoramous. Are you familiar with the 10 Commandments? Obviously, the "Thou shalt not kill" commandment passed right through the wind tunnel between your ears.

    Let me explain something to you about being "pro-choice." Pro-choice doesn't me that I will CHOOSE to have an abortion. It means that I reserve the right to CHOOSE whether or not I will have one. You can be pro-choice and be against abortion - I am. And I'm also against capital punishment and war.....because I'm a TRUE Christian.

    Maybe you should ask yourself, "What would Jesus do?" and actually PRACTICE what he preached. If you did, there's no way you'd be a Republican.

    09.05.08 - 10:18 AM
  • 1753. Wildom said:

    Yeah Heather. Thanks for speaking for the rest of us. I am in 100% agreement with you. The VP pick made me sad, speechless, terrified, and depressed. God help us.

    09.05.08 - 10:18 AM
  • 1754. Meg said:

    Thank you a thousand times over. I couldn't have put it better myself, but I had tears in my eyes because it's what I've wanted to say, but can't because I'm trying desperately to make my relationship last through the election.

    09.05.08 - 10:19 AM
  • 1755. Jennifer said:

    Heather,

    Look at how many angry people there are, and these are just people who read your website. This, I hope, will be reflected in the election. It has to be. Over the last two days I can barely speak about the election and what the Republicans are doing without invoking an anxiety attack.

    09.05.08 - 10:19 AM
  • 1756. Callie said:

    A-FUCKING-MEN. That is all.

    09.05.08 - 10:21 AM
  • 1757. garyj said:

    I think you need to be more honest. You're not concerned about "lack of experience". You're concerned that she's conservative and popular. If McCain had picked Condoleezza Rice, I'm guessing you would have come up with some other complaint.

    Palin is unqualified and incompetent? You must be joking. There is an irony here. She is being derided as too green to be one step from the presidency. Well sorry for noticing, but the actual *Presidential* nominee for the Dems fails the same test.

    Personally, I think it's largely irrelevant for both parties. Competency and intelligence are far more important. Obama is perfectly *competent* to be president, no question. So is McCain. So is Biden. Well, maybe. But so is Palin. The thing that nobody seems to want to talk about is that virtually no candidate, unless they were an incumbent or Secretary of State, has foreign policy experience. No, the Foreign Relations Committee doesn't count. They don't make policy. I'm sure the self-important senators on both sides of the isle who serve would love for you believe they have a big hand in shaping foreign policy. But they don't.

    I'm one of those Reagan Democrats (Fiscally conservative, socially liberal) types who feels disenfranchised by both parties. The big question for me is whether Palin (or any politician really) will try to turn personal beliefs into policy. Someone's religious beliefs, and this coming from an atheist, are no more relevant to me than their sexual orientation. I just don't care. Hell, Obama has at least as much theological baggage as Palin.

    The fact that she didn't mention abortion in her speech is being taken as cynical and calculating. Perhaps. But maybe she just think it's not the business of the government to get involved. Before you scoff, remember that would be a "true" conservative position. Government out of people's private lives. Time will tell I suppose, and all nominees from both sides have to talk out of both sides of their mouths at some point during a campaign.

    I think what you're feeling is panic. Panic that Palin is proving popular.*

    -gary

    *how's that for alliteration? :)

    09.05.08 - 10:23 AM
  • 1758. Dawn said:

    Thank you. I find that my conservative family members are sure they know what I think and am going to say, so it is impossible to talk to them because they can't hear what I actually am saying. It is more of a nightmare than it sounds, since my brother was literally screaming at me last night for something I never said and do not think. I donated to Obama for the first time in response.

    09.05.08 - 10:23 AM
  • 1759. Jessica said:

    #324 Nikki P said: "I can't talk to the Republicans because they're all such narrow minded asswipes. Thank you for your thoughts and opinions. You make boatloads of sense."

    Please don't tell me that I'm the only person who finds this comment to be a bit a hypocritical. Labeling an entire group of people as "narrow minded asswipes" sounds a little, well, narrow minded if you ask me.

    Nikki P, I think you should seek a little more education on the subject before you make yourself look any more foolish.

    09.05.08 - 10:25 AM
  • 1760. Deirdre said:

    I hear you Heather. As a woman I am furious and frightened about the nomination of Sara Palin as VP.

    This Op-Ed in the LA Times made me feel a little better, though.

    Palin: wrong woman, wrong message
    Sarah Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Hillary Clinton. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.

    http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/la-oe-steinem4-2008sep04,0,7541303.s...

    09.05.08 - 10:27 AM
  • 1761. Tracy said:

    Thank You!

    09.05.08 - 10:29 AM
  • 1762. Kerrie said:

    You have been given a gift to influence people with your writing. 99% of the time you teach people to love, to laugh and to throw their arms around the world and give them a big hug without judgement. Yesterday you did not. You taught them to criticize and polarize against each other and that is evident from all these comments. Even if it is politics....

    Still love your guts though! Go Obama!

    09.05.08 - 10:29 AM
  • 1763. Jaycee said:

    All I can say is that John McCain is a rucking fut-job for choosing Palin. I can only laugh at his delusions of graneur that she'll make a fine VP because most of the country is just sittin back on their couch laughing their butts off. Whatever - this only gives more reason for people to vote for Obama.

    If those dirty RNC scumbags steal another election, THERE WILL BE RIOTING IN THE STREETS!

    09.05.08 - 10:29 AM
  • 1764. Ann said:

    Couldn't have said it better myself!
    Thanks for sharing that link, too, with the quotes and the facts.

    09.05.08 - 10:30 AM
  • 1765. Nicole said:

    I hope this is setting us up for an Exclamation Point, Election Edition.

    09.05.08 - 10:32 AM
  • 1766. erin said:

    Yes. Thank you.

    Fellow Kansans, let's try to turn our state blue on that little map in November!

    09.05.08 - 10:33 AM
  • 1767. aimee said:

    To #1757 gary
    Thank you Thank you Thank you! You said it so well - exactly what I've been thinking since I read this nonsensical post by Heather. It is all panic and fear that is making the liberals go nuts like this.
    The generalizations of the leftists on this site are outrageous and grotesque! It is hard to believe there are actually people who think this way.
    From an atheist Conservative woman

    09.05.08 - 10:34 AM
  • 1768. Belle said:

    Well said! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

    09.05.08 - 10:34 AM
  • 1769. Anonymous said:

    **************************************************

    Everyone read comment # 988 (page 4).
    Very well written.

    **************************************************

    09.05.08 - 10:34 AM
  • 1770. dee said:

    Whew, you've got a comments section heavy with Anonymous there.

    I applaud your willingness to share your political thoughts, having the forethought to know the shit it is going to stir for you. I am an Obama supporter in the same position with conservative family and surrounded by a buttload of McCain signs in my Alabama neighborhood.

    I will say, though, that my father who was initially all gung-ho for McCain has since had his Republican balloon deflated with the appearance of Palin. She's too much for him...he's resigning himself to not even vote this election. While I could never convince him to vote for Obama and his "wacko shenanigans" at least his vote won't be going for McCain either.

    09.05.08 - 10:35 AM
  • 1771. Laura Smith said:

    AMEN SISTER! I am terrified that the fundie loons are going to snatch the election. I responded to Palin's speech by donating $25 to Obama. Not much, but it's something.

    09.05.08 - 10:36 AM
  • 1772. Anonymous said:

    Thank you for your blog. Friday's Daily Chuck made me laugh out loud. It felt good.

    09.05.08 - 10:37 AM
  • 1773. Kelly said:

    my new favorite word is "snarky". it came to me after watching palin's speech.

    another great NON-PARTISAN (no baby burning here!) website for fact checking is http://www.politifact.com.

    thanks for a great post. i'm right there with you on the rage thing. come on down to MS for a spell & your family may be more bearable.

    09.05.08 - 10:37 AM
  • 1774. Meggles said:

    Gosh, these obscenity-ridden, hate-filled comments are soo classy. I usually figure if people have to resort to such low levels they aren't very good at articulating themselves.

    09.05.08 - 10:40 AM
  • 1775. Chrissy said:

    I urge everyone who doesn't want another 4 years of George Bush policies and failings to get off their butt and do something for Obama. It's not hard to go to your local campaign office and make phone calls, register voters, knock on doors, host a party, put up a yard sign. You can even make calls from your home. Go to http://www.barackobama.com for more info. If volunteering isn't your thing and you can afford to donate anything, please do.

    The Republicans will not go down without a fight. After all they feel they are in a holy war for the lives of unborn children. What they don't realize is that George Bush, even with a Republican Majority Congress for 6 years did nothing to make any changes to abortion rights. So, by voting for Republicans who decrease funding for health care, and other important government funded programs that support low income people, they do more to increase the rate of abortion. Ironic isn't it?

    09.05.08 - 10:42 AM
  • 1776. Pink said:

    I understand that healthcare is a topic of extreme concern for everyone. We pay 200.00 a WEEK for health insurance and that is still with some fairly large co-pays for office visits, medications and another fairly large deductible for procedures/hospitalizations.

    That being said, I work in healthcare. What a lot of people fail to realize is that while "national healthcare" is good in theory, it's going to be a beast to see to fruition.

    You see, many, many physicians are refusing to accept Medicare/Medicaid assigments anymore due to the low reimbursement rates. Add to that, fewer and fewer physicians are actually staying in practice. Why?

    It takes YEARS of hard work, dedication, and several hundreds of thousands of dollars to become a doctor. Most of these honorable people take out loans for that process. Add in malpractice insurance and what is the end result? A ton of debt.

    So, what's going to happen if this magical thing called "national healthcare" becomes a reality? Great, right? But, it's a people-based system. Physicians are backing out of the field NOW due to tremendous debt and poor reimbursement rates. I doubt seriously they will stay or continue to train for what, most probably, will equal a teacher's salary. Oh, but we say, teachers teach because they LOVE it and want to HELP, and so will doctors. No, they won't. Their education and intelligence will be better be utilized in a differing profession and if you ask any doctor, he or she will tell you so.

    Obama is an optimistic fellow, but he can't materialize the people needed to staff a "national healthcare system."

    09.05.08 - 10:42 AM
  • 1777. luna said:

    hallelujah. but not, you know, in a religious sense.

    09.05.08 - 10:43 AM
  • 1778. Mike said:

    Wow, that Obama kool-aid must be hella good because you all have bathed in it. No experience was fine with Obama, until Palin didnt have any, great speeches were amazing, until Palin was able to deliver. Community organizing was commendable, until Plain came along. Please people, your hypocritical stances are make me nauseous.

    09.05.08 - 10:43 AM
  • 1779. Dumbfounded said:

    The US is a country in CRISIS!
    You all need to get your heads on straight and see it for what it is.

    And, yes, I'm from Canada and NO, we don't want you here.
    Go on thinking that our healthcare sucks, that our taxes are too high - keep whatever misguided and misinformed notions you have...
    If it will keep you out of here, go ahead.

    And citizens of the world DO have a right to have an opinion on this US election - the travesties that your current administration has brought upon this world affects all of us.

    For the love of all that is good in this world, please open your eyes and give this world some hope.

    Palin is scarier than Bush, Cheney, and McCain combined.

    I shudder in fear at the thought.

    09.05.08 - 10:44 AM
  • 1780. The Bold Soul said:

    As the lone liberal voice in a family of conservatives (and they're not even THAT conservative, rarely do the church thing, etc, but they are staunch Republicans) I just want to say THANK YOU for voicing your outrage so eloquently. I am living in France now, and planning to vote long distance in this election because I am hoping my vote will actually count enough to sway my home state in the right direction.

    I'm as disgusted as you are about Sarah Palin and the utter hypocrisy of the party's decision to put her in the Veep seat. There was a time I might have considered voting for McCain but as we get closer to E-Day, it is clear that the Republican party doesn't get it, doesn't share MY sense of values, and that McCain, while he has some good qualities, is too closely aligned with the B.S. we've been living with for the past 8 years.

    Not that the Democrats have all the answers, but right now I'm willing to put my money and my vote where I hope and pray it will count most.

    "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results." -- Ben Franklin

    The Republican party is asking us to continue the insanity for 4-8 more years. This time with a gun-toting Evangelical soccer mom with a pregnant teenager at home, a woman with no experience that could possibly qualify her to be the President of the United States in the event the aging McCain can't fulfill his oath of office.

    Of course I can't say ANY of this in the presence of my family members because they collectively go on the defensive and my sister starts whining about how MY liberal opinions are clearly being manipulated by the liberal PRESS (the same press where she's getting HER information, I might add) and how I have no idea what's really going on at home anymore. But I don't think she has a clue either -- she's living in a small and affluent Republican pocket of a state that typically votes Democratic.

    God help our country, that's all I can say. We vote our individual consciences and then we have to hope for something better this time.

    09.05.08 - 10:45 AM
  • 1781. Steffers said:

    Many of your are missing the point, there is a difference between people in need and people in greed. First off, don't slay me b/c by no means do I think Palin is a good pick, nor am I a McCain supporter, but you have to look at the system. My husband and I both work full time jobs to support our family of 3, soon to expand to 4, and even with good health insurance, we had to pay $2,000 for the birth of our son ($1,000 for delivery and then another $1,000 for the emergency c-section). So, much like Heather, we are very thankful to be able to have insurance as well as have the $$$ to pay what wasn't covered. On the flip side, my husband's step-brother and wife have two childred, she is a stay at home mom and he works when he wants to work. He quits jobs at the drop of a hat and when offered insurance through work, passes on paying for it b/c he can get it through the state. Um, what?!? They didn't have to pay a cent for the birth of either child and both children are medically covered thanks to the wonderful program Dr. Dinosaur of VT. I really do feel it is a good program offered to VT residents, but in this case, isn't it abused. How is it I work hard, am away from my lovely child 40+ hours a week and yet have to shell out $2,000 for the birth of my son, but they can be lazy and not work hard for anything, yet their births were paid for. I guess b/c I have seen someone take advantage of the system first hand, that I feel a little burned. Again, I do feel there are plenty of folks in need for which I don't mind helping, but there has to be something to help us distiguish need on a more deserving basis. Oh, and this isn't the first case of this I have seen, my husband's step-sister quit her job just before the birth of her second son and without insurance just thought it would be covered. She has since received a bill for $20,000 (unfortunately for her, she is a NH resident). I should note that she has no intention of paying the bill or even attempting to make a payment...she feels deserving in this case and doesn't feel she should have to pay it. Then we come back to me and my husband. Our second child is on the way and we are already saving the $$$ to cover what insurance won't pay (in addition to what we need to save to cover my 8 weeks of unpaid maternity leave). I'm already working hard to pay for myself, why should I pay more to help people like either of these 2 cases?

    09.05.08 - 10:46 AM
  • 1782. Amy said:

    My boyfriend and I got into a huge screaming match while watching the convention. I should say, trying to watch. I was having a hard time concentrating on what Palin was saying during her speech. I merely pointed out that it was disturbing they way they kept panning the camera on Palin's teenage daughter, the pregnant one, and her boyfriend, it seemed like every 2 minutes. They certainly weren't giving as much attention to her other 4 children. He didn't think it was done purposely, but to me it was disturbing. This country loves that shit, teen pregnancy is HOT.

    09.05.08 - 10:46 AM
  • 1783. Amber Lee said:

    This is exactly how I feel. Which is why, when my mother says Palin is great because she pushes abstinence only education I feel like I need to go jump off a cliff.

    09.05.08 - 10:46 AM
  • 1784. Stacy said:

    Heather, I love ya, but I disagree with you almost 100%. Throwing tax money at a problem (poverty) does not make the problem go away, it only increases dependency on the tax money. Especially when the welfare system rewards its recipients for having more babies, by giving them more money and thus increasing the tax burden exponentially.

    Yes, there are people out there who need financial help, I will not deny that. But the welfare system perpetuates dependency. People live off it and teach their children to do the same, and so the cycle goes on forever. We need to break the cycle with education and work programs, not by penalizing those who *do* work by increasing the tax burden.

    It is not an issue of Democrat vs. Republican. The president is basically a figurehead with limited power. Real, lasting change will be slow coming, and should start with the citizens of this country. We are all leaders and as such, we are all accountable for what happens. This election will not cause dramatic changes no matter who is elected.

    We can cry all we want about the health care system and the energy crisis. But what are we, as citizens, doing to actively promote the change we wish to see? Complaining won't fix it, and neither will tax dollars. Accountability and responsibility of the masses will.

    09.05.08 - 10:48 AM
  • 1785. Krista said:

    I second every thought! I said to my husband after Obama spoke - "Please, God, tell me we are at a minimum smart enough to elect this man of all men to get us out of the mess we're in."

    09.05.08 - 10:51 AM
  • 1786. christine said:

    None of this anger my friends will do any good unless you put it to action----get people registered to vote, donate to Obama's campaign or get involved somehow. Considering how the Republicans brainwashed people the last 8 years--we got to do something to fix this. (The USA is rated #139 in the world for voter turnout)

    I'm an American in London and I tell ya---its pretty surreal watching all this election stuff from abroad. People are so fed up w/Bush in Europe---they are tired of a country that has 5% of the world's population (and who uses 25% of the worlds resources) telling everyone what to do. Americans are not the only ones on this planet and its about time we wake up to this fact.

    I find it funny McCain is arguing 'change' is coming---but to what?? Haven't the Republicans been in power the last 8 years. Is it going to change to even more right-wing? The only reason why people bitch so much about the raise in taxes is because you don't get anything back for all the taxes that you pay. The French pay 22% in taxes compared to our 19%, but we don't get free health care and 6 weeks paid vacation do we ?? No wonder they're having sex all the time, because they don't have the worries we do.

    The whole RNC was very disturbing. I couldn't sleep last night---I kept having nightmares that McCain wins.

    OBAMA 08

    GET OUT & GET INVOLVED!!!!!

    09.05.08 - 10:52 AM
  • 1787. Liz for Obama/Biden said:

    Thank you so much Heather. I almost lost a good friend yesterday over her misguided hatred of Obama. He has inspired me to get involved in the election process. I have always voted but I feel like this election is too important not to do everything in my power to help elect Barack Obama. The stakes are too high. The polls are too close. Dr. King spoke of the fierce urgency of now, and Obama echoes that sentiment. NOW is the time. If not now, when?

    09.05.08 - 10:52 AM
  • 1788. Juliet said:

    Okay, let's see...

    Sarah Palin has served the Republcans well this past week.

    She has been shrill, negative, and scornful of Obama
    She has played up her so-called "family values" by exploiting her daughter's pregnancy and her son who has Down's Syndrome
    She has injected a major dose of drama into the lackluster McCain campaign.

    Great. Now all that is left is for her to withdraw and let McCain pick his real running mate: Lieberman.

    And then what next for Sarah Palin? Why, Senator of Alaska, of course!

    Courtesy of Karl Rove, the second edition.

    09.05.08 - 10:54 AM
  • 1789. MM said:

    Thank you. It makes me so happy to see you put to such good use your influence.

    09.05.08 - 10:54 AM
  • 1790. Cee said:

    I'm so glad I'm Canadian.

    09.05.08 - 10:55 AM
  • 1791. Becca said:

    What your conservatives friends, family, and commenters might be trying to say, and what liberals don't seem to understand is that if you want to "HELP people" you are perfectly free to take YOUR money and help however YOU want.

    Non-liberals aren't anti-help. We aren't anti-charity. We just think that in general we make better decisions with our money than the government does.

    We're not all terrible people. McCain and Palin aren't extreme right-wingers. Maybe it's a function of living in Utah and only knowing extremely conservative people? There are perfectly rational, kind, caring, NONLIBERALS in this country too. Please don't think you have a monopoly on caring, because you do not.

    09.05.08 - 10:55 AM
  • 1792. Kelly said:

    To be fair, if you are going to cite the fact checking on Palin's speech, check out the one for Obama as well.

    http://www.factcheck.org/elections-2008/factchecking_obama.html

    09.05.08 - 10:55 AM
  • 1793. JAC said:

    I am somewhat in the opposite boat than you -- conservative political values in a liberal family -- and in reading up on the candidates have come to the conclusion that my family and I have the same values and motivations, we just believe that it should be / can be accomplished in different ways. I think government is always the last resort because it has been proven ineffective time and again. My family sees it as the only option. We both want to help others and protect our future, I would just prefer to have more control over how that money is spent. I tithe to the charities that I think are well run and support people, whereas my sister gives to environmental causes. Do I begrudge her choices? No, they're both important, I just feel more personal connection to the poor and downtrodden -- and applaud groups like Habitat who offer "a hand up, not a hand out".

    So while I feel for your situation, I have to say that your family may not be horrible people just because they are voting differently than you. They may (and I'm sure do) have some very similar core values. They may just believe in a different route to accomplishing them as a society.

    09.05.08 - 10:56 AM
  • 1794. Andrea said:

    A-fucking-men.

    09.05.08 - 10:56 AM
  • 1795. LP said:

    So many comments! Not surprised though. :o) What I would love to see happen in my lifetime is that people stop being so attached to one party or another and honestly realize that there are great people with great ideas on both sides of the line.
    Do I want to "drill, drill, drill..."? Absolutely not. But I also don't think it's wrong to be pro-life. I understand that campaigns will always be divisive, simply with the nature of competition. But, as I always feel this time in an election year, things are starting to get out of hand. The important issues of Darfur, of HIV epidemics, of homeless populations in our own country go overlooked and instead we are focused on Obama's tax return and the fact that Palin's daughter is pregnant.
    Come on, America. We can do better!

    09.05.08 - 10:57 AM
  • 1796. Anonymous said:

    "HAS ANYONE SENT THEIR STIMULUS CHECKS BACK TO THE IRS YET???? No, I didn't think so."

    You nit wit. I used it to pay for shit I need like FOOD, MORTGAGE and ELECTRICITY.

    09.05.08 - 10:58 AM
  • 1797. PunditMom said:

    Welcome to the political discussion among women bloggers! There can't be enough of us!

    09.05.08 - 11:00 AM
  • 1798. christine said:

    forgot to mention:

    Palin supports abortion even in the case of rape or incest. Even the Mormon church allows this. So what---a woman is supposed to keep a child even if it makes her insane because of the emotional trauma from being raped or molested? How is this Christian?? If life is so precious to Republicans---what about the mother???

    Also, I get sick of people saying that Obama has no experience---for one he's 47 and what he's done in his lifetime, I'd like to see any normal human being accomplish. If you bother to look him up on like wikipedia or google, you can find all the legislation & accomplishments he's done. I do find it humorous though that people fail to remember that Obama has been in a Republican Majority house and they were vetoing nearly EVERYTHING that had the word Democrat on it. I challenge you to look him up though---he's done a lot of very impressive things.

    Anyway---I'd much rather have him than someone on the brink of death!!

    09.05.08 - 11:02 AM
  • 1799. Asianmommy said:

    Thank you, Heather. I'm with you 100%.

    09.05.08 - 11:03 AM
  • 1800. Hilary said:

    I am so glad you feel this way. i feel like this election is causing me to lose a lot of respect for people around me.

    09.05.08 - 11:07 AM
  • 1801. Darcy said:

    YAY YAY YAY for you. So well put, even if even more fuck'n's would have said it better. It is totally scary how many Americans have lost their minds. My husband says if McCain and Palin win we're moving into a fallout shelter powered by solar panels.

    09.05.08 - 11:07 AM
  • 1802. Christine said:

    Heather, you (and everyone else) are probably not going to read down this far, but you are my new hero. I live in the liberal corner of the US (Massachusetts), and it's sometimes hard to fathom that most of the country does not think like we do. Until I see someone living in the heart of the land of the red who agrees with us. Well done, and keep spoutin' off.

    09.05.08 - 11:07 AM
  • 1803. heather said:

    "whatever" I agree to disagree with you!!!

    09.05.08 - 11:08 AM
  • 1804. Matej said:

    I would argue that just because something comes from AP, that doesn't mean it won't be written with a bias, slant or agenda.

    And I think it's dangerous to assume that every non-American believes that the last 8 years in America have somehow been the worst in human history. I live in Canada (originally from the Czech Republic), but I still think the United States is the greatest country on earth. Yes, it has its share of problems. Lots of problems. Big ones. But it has more potential than anywhere else on earth. All countries have problems. We just hear about the problems in the US because it's always under the microscope.

    Yes, healthcare is major issue. But I think the problem is with the insurance companies. That's the system that's broken, the system that needs an overhaul. There's nothing wrong with giving to others, with helping people out. But it should be a personal choice. The government should not be taxing people and then distributing that money without any say by the people who earned it in the first place. There are other people who do that in this world. We call them thieves.

    09.05.08 - 11:08 AM
  • 1805. Anonymous said:

    Is George Washington available?

    09.05.08 - 11:10 AM
  • 1806. Anonymous said:

    Hmmm, waded through a few comments and of course, the usual rhetoric.
    It's great to help out others, our fellow human beings, but when they don't try to help themselves, forget it. Game over. I'm a military wife and my husband originally joined the military to get an education, and has stayed in 13 years now for love of country. He re-enlisted indefinitely just two years ago. He works hard and pays taxes like everyone else.
    While I respect everyone's opinions, they are like a**holes, people, everyone has one.

    09.05.08 - 11:11 AM
  • 1807. Toni said:

    I have sent links to your post to everybody I know. AMEN!!! I have thought for a very long time that you are an amazing, hilarious, honest, great woman and when I read this post I was once again reminded why I have you on such a pedastal. You said very eloquently what millions of people are thinking and feeling and SCREAMING at their TV's.

    09.05.08 - 11:16 AM
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