• ClaireinAustin

    You crack me up.
    I felt the same way about little kid birthday parties. torture!

  • Heidi D-M

    I lurve you so much, but your new font (although styley in letterage) has horrible commas. They looook liiiike peeeeeriods. Bleargh.

    Keep on truckin’ Sugar Bear.

  • H_Isaac

    Heather you are hilarious! I love your biting sarcasm and your writing style. I have a blog that I started writing when I found out I was pregnant and mostly its sole purpose is for my son to read when he’s older. It’s not quite as hilarious as yours though–it’s got more of a dramatic feel to it seeing as I started my single motherhood on such a difficult note.

    I just wanted to say that I wish you more power in your blogwriting and more success in life, love, and health :) Looking forward to more of your posts!

    H xx

  • HI-D

    I’m so glad that someone else out there has a “barnacle” girl too! I thought that I was the only one.

  • sarahfromthenorth

    I don’t know if it’s the two glasses of Pinot Grigio I just polished off but that post was one of the funniest posts you have ever written. This one definately goes in the book of top 50 posts that you’ve yet to publish; I think it’s right up there with the rather bald chicken reference. It sums up EXACTLY what motherhood to toddlers is like – just perfectly! You’re on your groove Heather!

  • TropicalPopsicle

    Oh boy…I’m 8 weeks away from my due date with my first and I constantly wonder what her personality will be. Will she be chill and like to be left alone like me, or will she be everywhere at once and into everything like her dad? I kind of hope she’s a bit more like Leta. (But without the screaming, remember that?)

  • kidsmom

    Try this:

    “I’m sorry, Mommy can’t do this any more because her hands are tired.”

    or:

    “I’m sorry, Mommy can’t listen any more because her ears are tired.”

    Seriously.

  • mommica

    I’m right there with you sister. Except mine is almost four and wants to play pretend we’re bears and I’m the mommy bear and she’s the baby bear; or pretend we’re queens and I’m the mean queen and she’s the nice queen; or pretend she’s a kitty, but a talking kitty. Lovely, and I’ll remember it forever. NOW PLEASE STOP!

  • LinKelley

    My son’s kindergarten teacher used to say, “The years fly by but the afternoons are endless.” Amen

  • BuenoBabyGirl

    Mine likes to play house until I beg for mercy. And it goes something like this: “O.K. mommy, YOU be the mommy and I’LL be the kid.”

    How fun is that?

  • ladygray

    it appears Marlo is a kindred spirit to my 2 year old son… only trouble is, there is an 8 month old son involved as well who literally NEEDS me to cart him place to place. the 2 year old has started saying “put brother down over there.”

    the good news is? the 8 month old is extremely chill. the bad news is? the 8 month old occasionally gets ignored while I tap dance blindfolded backwards on my hands entertaining the 2 year old.

  • sabina

    Love what LinKelly said.

    I try to remind myself that one day my daughter will be firing away on her iPhone or laptop or internal mind chip (by that time) while I’m sitting there drooling telling her some tedious story (for the twentieth time) about how the ’80s were the best years ever!!! while she desperately wishes she was doing something else.

    My dad, a master of child-rearing, once told me that participation doesn’t count as much as physical proximity. He just plops down on the floor next to my daughter with a newspaper and utters the occasional, hmmm mmm, really?, and then what did the frog say? I’ve tried this and works a surprising amount of the time.

  • juliemewood

    How has no one said anything about the creepy looking guy behind Marlo?

  • dooce

    @juliemewood that’s my stepfather.

  • TheSkyIsOverrated

    You know what juliemewood really meant to say was tremendously handsome and adoring guy behind Marlo… right? Yeah. I’m pretty sure that’s what she meant to say.

  • kristanhoffman

    LOL to the whole juliemewood “thread.”

    And to LinKelley’s comment.

    You know, as an only child and the daughter of small business owners, I was pretty much left to fend for myself (in terms of entertainment, not food or shelter or anything). I think I turned out okay.

  • SparkleP

    Arts and Crafts slowly suck the soul from my mortal being. Try the Alex craft kits – at least then you don’t have to cut shit out and it comes with all the pieces together. We like the bug plates one and the paper bag puppets.

  • theotherlion

    I will totally come be your body double. I love gluing shit to other shit. That being said, I get tiring easily of something you are supposed to cherish forever because they are only young once. Ya, sometimes momma wants a nap.

    Also, does Marlo have a Crayola Glow Board? Because I think she might need one. Really super awesome.

  • waitimaprincess

    All praise be to YouTube and its incessant ability to entertain my toddler. TV brain and all that, whatever “they” say about no TV, it turns brains to mush WHATEVER. Screw the judgers who say aw Heather, cherish that time, your darling preshus angel is only this age once. I positively treasure each of my children. But sometimes…just sometimes…hold cup mommy. Hold cup mommy. Hold it. Drink, mommy. Driiiiiiiiink iiiiiiiiiiiiit! Apple? Apple mommy. Get apple. Get it. Get it. Get it. Cudder. Cudder mommy. No blue! Purpo. You purpo mommy. And. I. Touch. The. Red. KABLOOM! It’s raining crayons and feet are being kicked at the travesty of my idiocy. Sometimes I want crying to be my fucking failsafe too.

  • farmreport

    Every time I read about Marlo I think, “Huh. That sounds really familiar.” And then I get distracted by scenes like these: http://bit.ly/vxOehp. That’s deja vu at age seven, at about 7:03am. (Before I took the photo I told her to come down from the top rung or someone was going to call CPS.)

    And those crafts? They turn into full-on PROJECTS, and you are the unpaid intern.

  • big dog momma

    Crafts? At such a young age? Why, Heather! I think you’ve got a BYU alum in the making!!!

    ::ducks to avoid flying objects::

  • Monkey

    My oldest was always independent. I see him less the closer he approaches his teen years. He’s always at a friend’s house or on his laptop. We had an ongoing thing: “Hello son I never see” “Hello mom I never see”.
    My youngest, although he’s starting to spend more time at friend’s houses, still likes to “hang out” with us CONSTANTLY. My husband and I can’t have a date night without it being an issue. Hell, even on our nightly walks, it’s an issue getting out of the house without tears and promises that we’ll be right back.
    Weird how that ended up.

  • gretchie

    You know, it’s weird enough that Marlo looks like a doppelganger of my daughter (my girl turns 7 next month), but you are describing her personality to a T. I don’t think I have any advice for you, really, except to say that people who complain about letting the TV babysit your child, didn’t have a model like this one. Also, thank God for paper and crayons. She makes endless pictures while watching Witches of Waverly Place or Good Luck Charlie. When she was smaller, I also kept those “paint with water” books stashed away for especially frustrating moments.

    She also likes to write, so maybe she’ll be some sort of hackneyed blogger one day.

    Her fingernails haven’t been consistently clean since she was two and every day she came home from daycare I had to shake mounds of mulch from her shoes, pockets and jackets. I seriously would love to get them together for a play-date.

    Get ready. She’s probably going to get in “trouble” more often at school than Leta ever did. And she may announce her intent to marry some snotty kid when she’s three. Hurray…

  • Laura Jones

    Mine would deliver play food and I would have to “eat” it but not like that Mommy, like this. Steak and ice cream were on the same plate as as whole salt shaker.

  • magwilky

    I have a barnacle too and she is now 6, so it is not so cute anymore. I always tell people, “If you value your personal space, do not have children” (Also, if you like to drink your beverages without someone else’s backwash in them, do not have children, but that is another topic)

  • KathyB

    Good picture. Eventually she won’t want to be a growth on your body any more. But she will always be Marlo. I see sports in hr future. Perpetual motion kids drive their parents to get them into sports to gain spans of time without playing ringmaster for the circus at home.

    But it comes, you know, after toddler stage.

  • booner32

    LOL! Great post. Maci loves crafts too and Tiff is always feeling guilty about hating them. Not me, crafts suck and I feel no shame admitting that.

  • suzified

    Ha. Reminds me of the the “Dogpound” ep of Louie. “The hardest part of having kids is just the days that you spend with them.” I, too, have a barnacle.

  • jenwilson

    So glad I’m not the only one.

  • Angel Girl

    When you’re in the midst of those years, they feel like they will never end.
    Twenty years later, you would sell your soul to go back.

  • jesterqueen

    Oh Jesus thank you somebody else who hates kidart. I loathe the shit my children put on my fridge. I have to remember that I had no idea I was making shit back in my day in order to keep from pointing it out to them. OK, it isn’t really THAT bad. But seriously. This isn’t something I’m going to miss. Reading with them? I’ll be heartsick when it’s gone. Snuggling on the couch? Ditto. But not the making.

    Well. I gotta go. We’re scheduled to paint fucking plaster ornaments at 3. And you know what would happen if I were late.

  • Heather too

    I know what you mean. If you feel like I did about playing dolls, I recommend you IMMEDIATELY never buy any Barbies or dolls that require playing dress up with the dolls, having conversations, etc. I hated dolls as a child, and hated it when my daughter wanted to play with her Barbies with me. I love her dearly, but every second was a total agony. I feel your pain.