Leta giving a little love to Izzy.
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It started off so innocent!
Where did she go?
The cautious one
my hubby lost his dad about 20 years ago, too.
dammit, dork, why’d you have to make me cry on a monday?
i meant dooce, but i may have to start calling you dork. nothing but love, of course.
Bucky definitely nailed it on the head with the letter to Heather’s dad!
(I really liked the alliteration in “steak sauce sodomy”, too! )
Shout out to all the Michiganders, and thanks to Coskel, I had to go back up and read BFEs comment. That was wonderful, I hope Heather sends it to her dad!
Regarding the best laundry ‘basket’ EVER…
My mom got me one that is more like a gigantic backpack than anything else. Now, I don’t have laundry facilities within my home, so the Schlep Factor is higher on my list than it may be for some. Wearing it into the laundromat is SO easy!
It really is the best.
You can hang it on the back of your bathroom door. It has its own indicator for when it’s time to do the laundry built in: you can no longer open the door enough to get in the bathroom!
My grandfather, my dad, me and my daughter all curl or toes when we are sitting down.
I just think that’s so cool.
Heather, you are such a gifted writer. I wonder what your dad’s reaction was when he read your entry.
Gawsh, thanks ya’ll. I should get mushy more often. *blush*
*Eclair* (Comment #210)
No offense, but I don’t think we’re *all* dying of curiosity.
You can find some words from Jon here:
I don’t think it’s polite to ask for more than that.
Wow, Heather, that was beautiful, you made me cry! I look like my daddy too, only curvier and with more hair on my head!
Mrs. Strizzay, WORD! Right, because if he’s “still a really nice guy” then where the hell was he the whole time you were growing up? Good for you!
Its been ages since I last comment, but I just have to say I LOVE Letas new pigtails! They cant be any more adorable!.
*said in my best Cameron Fry voice*
Bucky Four-Eyes, you’re my hero.
eclair – jon talks about it at blurbomat.
BFE – you make me proud to be a fellow michigander.
dooce – dammittall!! and I mean that in a loving way.
love to all the dooceaholics, the one-night standers who are on here today and gone tomorrow, and the occasional drop-ins like myself – I read every day, but post only once in a while.
Bucky, that was so amazing. You put into words what all of us are feeling. We all come to this site every day, not because we are weird (okay, we are a little weird), but because we can relate to Heather. Whether it be about interesting uses for steak sauce and Kotex Light Days, how to wean your baby from the dreaded binky, or interesting ways to torture your dog (i.e. wrapping pasta around his snout), we ALWAYS get a good laugh and relate to what she says. This is a very special gift that Heather has, and I know most dads would be very proud (whether or not they admitted to it). All I can say is “Thank You” to Heather, and I hope one day her dad can say the same thing!
Ha My “real” Dad lives wicked close to me and my mom is all like do you want to meet him, so and so says he is still a really nice guy.
Um yeah, ok. NO
PIGTAILS! Those are the cutest pigtails EVER. In fact, they’re so freekin cute I just might…
Oops, too late.
Bucky-You nailed that one. Yeah, that is exactly how I feel too!
Laura…fantastic page. I am the product of a two parent household, but my dad has a secret we are not allowed to talk about. I love your writing!
U2 playing on the radio at my desk…
“who’s gonna ride your wild horses….”
I’m LOOOAVING all of the Boing, Prong, and 3-Prong photographs. LOOOAVE them.
Holy shit I can see the numbers now!
Happy V-D to everyone.
Where’s the “MASCARA ALERT”?
My father is the same thing to me. I won’t bore you with details here, because this is YOUR blog, but every word you just wrote could’ve been written by me to my father.
Two great men, for sure!
Wow. Thanks, Heather.
the “The reason I have resisted all requests to trim this kid’s hair” photo makes Leta look like an evil genius putting a hex on us all. LOVE IT.
Someone get me a ladder I need to put up this big W E L C O M E banner so I dont’ have to keep saying it all the time.
*dang cold on his knees painting said banner and wearing a bandana*
Beautiful, as always.
Bucky Four Eyes – EXACTLY what you said. Couldn’t have said it better. I read Dooce every single day and don’t comment often but really enjoy reading the posts and some of the comments – you all are a lot of fun and Dooce and all of you make me smile every day! Thanks!
Dooce – your post was really nice – brought a few tears to my eyes.
by the way – photo – TOO CUTE…my heart has exploded into tiny, tiny pieces all.over.the.room.
Bucky Four Eyes — You totally RAWK. Seriously. VERY, very well put.
May I second (or third, or fourth) your opinion?
Aww…what a cutie pie!
Dang cold — Um. Thanks. I’m sort of “killin time” myself today. I’ll be in a meeting from 2:00pm CST time on, woo, what fun. Tomorrow, yes, TOMORROW, though, I will totally kick some work ass, though. No really…
Bucky Four-Eyes said at 10:51AM, 02.14.2005:
“Dear Heatherâ€™s Dad:…
Your daughter has a gift… *the talent to let us know the exact spot where her heart is being touched on any given day*,”…
Ah, Bucky4eyes, you hit the nail on the head!
Dooce, I just want you to know I find you very savory.
If I was serious for a moment, I would say I deeply respect what you are doing with this site. I respect your honesty and willingness to be open about your life. You help people, and you’ve certainly helped me.
I respect you just as much for what you reserve from public view. Which is why I feel like a terrible person. Because you know now that I’ve just been buttering you up before my loathesome and purient request.
When do we get to know what is up with Jon’s first marriage?
God, I hate myself for asking but we are all dying of the curiousity.
While we’re on the subject of Dads…
Years ago, I wrote this about my Adopted Dad:
I always know when I visit your site that I will either laugh or cry (or both). Thank you for your words and your generosity. Thank you for smiling at strangers.
Dooce – thanks for the tears on the daddy article. My father and I have never been really close; I wish it weren’t that way.
A Disney moment to share with all of you — Clay on Playhouse Disney was just encouraging the viewing audience to say “Hoo Ha” over and over again, saying that it was fun to say “Hoo Ha.” (The otters are sailing on Lake Hoo Ha today.)
Isn’t a Hoo Ha a vagina? I thought Disney was all about the good clean fun. Otters sailing on Lake Hoo Ha? What’s up with that?
Welcome aboard Tanya…help yourself to the big honkin bowl of chocolate at the center of the table. I like the stuff with the gooey cherry stuff in the middle.
My dad died two years ago last Friday. It’s never too late to call. If you don’t feel like you can explain it all, just tell him you love him, and that you see him in the mirror, and save the rest for another day. *hug*
CK..if it weren’t for me hangin’ with you and this crew I’d be having a pointless day. I feel like I’m taking up air and space in this office and occupying a perfectly good computer for no reason. I’m taking in your post one at a time and pausing each time. Still a difficult subject for me the whole parents thing. You’re really really expressing yourself today and I like it alot
Dang cold — Heh, I used to hate that song and dwell on it in the same breath.
How’s things with you today, dearie?
Laura, I’ve been where you are now, and still have moments where I’m really ticked about the choices THEY made. They will never know their grandkids. The one time Adopted Dad told me I had cute kids, I agreed with him in a “Yes, too bad you won’t know them either” kind of way.
Finding him and talking to him face to face helped me quite a bit, even though he lied to me, to my face, about things. It still helped, though. Deep cleansing breath, indeed.
My sister (his only biological child) is still VERY ticked at him and all he’s put my Mom through over the years. Adopted Dad paid child support sporadically, as well, and still owes quite a bit of money to my Mom.
There is no question that someone who can cause that kind of emotional damage has no place in my life… it still makes me wish things could have been very different, though.
And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when,
But we’ll get together then.
You know we’ll have a good time then.”
Bucky – very nice!!
Happy Valentines Day to all.
Thanks for making me (nearly) cry and laugh in just a few minutes. Today’s post is beautiful and the photo of Leta with the pony-tail is a riot. Bless you for giving this SAHM something interesting to read between all the usual you-know-what.
Those pigtails are spectacular! She’s getting so big! I’m sending Leta hugs from Florida!
Happy Valentine’s Day!
(I just used four exclamation points in one comment! Of France!!!!)
That could quite possibly be the cutest picture I’ve ever seen!
Good question, Kelli ..
I have never had a father/daughter relationship. Now, at 36 I’m a bit pissed about it and realize the damage my father caused by not being involved.
Because I’ve never held a special place in his heart, I’ve created a special place on the web just for him. http://www.AlanBoxer.com
Yeah, what Bucky said.
Am I first?
Ahhhhh – uber cute!
We need a full frontal pose of Leta w/ those double pigtails! I can only imagine the full effect!?! UBER CUTE!
Heather, I have been reading your site for a long time. I have often felt a bond with you. This morning I found out that my 67 year old father’s cancer (which we thought he had beat) is in his lungs and he doesn’t have long to live. These next few months are going to be very hard. I do however find joy every day from your website, and for that I thank you.
Bravo BFE! Bravo!!
Circus Kelli- Thank you. Let the chocolate eating commence!
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