This here bringer of the pooper to the fun party

My beat poet

Yesterday at around noon I got a call from the secretary at the front desk of the girls’ school letting me know that Marlo had come to the office feeling under the weather. She asked if I’d like to speak to her, and when I said yes I heard her hand over the receiver and say, “No, you hold that part to your ear. That part, Marlo.”

If it doesn’t look like a cell phone how on earth is she supposed to know how it works?

“Mom,” she finally said into the right part of the phone. “I have a terrible headache, and when I take off my jacket the cold keeps coming in.”

“The cold keeps coming in?” I restated more than asked because I wanted to remember it for a nihilistic poem I will eventually write that will win awards.

“Yes,” she answered without any of her usual fervor. “It swooshes in and in and in.” When I told her I would be right over to pick her up she immediately blurted, “I love you.” Something was horribly wrong. Marlo does not usually end a conversation on the phone with any salutation. Never a “goodbye” or “talk to you later.” Instead, she just drops the phone. When you hear the thump as it hits the floor you know she’s done talking.

When I retrieved her from school she was lethargic and silent, signaling one of two things: she was either sick or possessed. We’d spent several hours the night before at InstaCare to investigate a sore on her thumb, and when the whole experience was finally over and the doctor did not cut off her thumb she celebrated with elaborate song and dance and would have bought everyone at the bar a whole round of shots. When we walked back out into the lobby from the exam room she stood in the middle of the floor where everyone waiting could see her and dramatically wiped the invisible sweat from her forehead.

“PHEW!” she yelled. “HE DIDN’T SLICE OFF MY FINGER!” As I ushered her toward the exit I turned around and made several physical gestures to the startled audience to indicate that surgical removal of her finger wasn’t ever an option. I don’t think anyone there believed me.

Lethargy is not Marlo’s idea of a good time. Fucking shit up? That’s more her speed.

When we got home from school she sluggishly climbed into a ball on the couch and remained inert and burning hot for several minutes before she looked over at Chuck. He was lying in one of the dogs bed on the perimeter of the living room gnawing on an antler chew I had bought both dogs as gifts in New Mexico. She sat up, blinked several times and even took off her glasses to rub her eyes.

“He’s not hurting the reindeer is he?” she asked on the verge of tears but too weak to actually cry.

Hurting the reindeer? It took me a few seconds to follow her line of reasoning and I immediately assured her that, no, Chuck was not hurting the reindeer. I explained that Chuck couldn’t possibly be hurting the reindeer as the antler was no longer physically attached to the reindeer. Similarly, if someone had found her thumb after the doctor cut it off, she wouldn’t be able to feel someone chewing on it.

outbursts

“Hurting the reindeer” would be one of many wonderful things to come out of her mouth for the rest of the afternoon, throughout the night and all the way up until her fever finally settled down at 5 AM this morning. Other expressions included:

“They are stopping the yawning!” I could not get her to identify who “they” were so I assumed she meant the Republicans.

“P-O-P spells ‘reading a book.’” Leta was asking for dessert and was in the middle of spelling popsicle in case Marlo wanted one and wasn’t allowed to have one.

“My hot is finding it! My hot is finding it!” This was an outburst in the middle of the night while she was still sleeping so I have no idea what the context was other than maybe the marijuana caramel I gave her before she fell asleep was working.

“My nose isn’t blowing.” This is probably a pretty common one with kids who get confused about the mechanics of things, so I gently explained that she had to blow her nose in hopes of helping her to remedy the situation. I knew instantly that her fever was coming down when she blurted, “STOP ARGUING WITH ME!”

  • Anne

    What a beautiful, wild, wonderful child Marlo is, and how lucky she is to have you!

  • Eilis Wagner Byrnes

    I hope your pumpkin feels better soon.

  • susanfishy

    Now I know where Junie B Jones is living. At your house. Hope she feels better soon.

  • Beth

    My feverish daughter woke up with a start last week and shouted, “What’s a lean-to?!”

  • Desiree Johnson

    Hope she’s better soon! My daughter has been sick a lot this fall too… she’s usually the healthy one.

  • Suzanne Marie Heitmuller

    Welcome to kindergarten – the year when your kid builds their immune system by catching every nasty illness that comes down the freaking pike! My son lasted 2 days in kindergarten before he came home with strep. It does get better (but sucks in the meantime; my sympathies). I swear our children are related somehow. My son went to the doctor and told him he was feeling “Lethargic and unlike himself.” He was 5. Yep, 5. Scares the crap out of me when he is quiet and still as well! Hang in there!

  • Beth Rich

    My Stepdad, a general practitioner for many years, once told me “there are over 5,000 viruses known to affect the human body. Congratulations, you just survived one more.” Hope she gets to feeling better soon.

  • Danielle S

    One night in the middle of a sinus infection I had finally drifted off to sleep after heavy rounds of carefully mixed Sudafed and Nyquil. I apparently sneezed very dramatically and very loud and very unlike me, so my husband awoke and asked if I was alright. He says that with a smile on my face I responded, “I’m fine. I’m just exploding.”

    I have no recollection of any of this.

  • Poor Marla. I hope she is arguing with enthusiasm soon. I would be happy to send your pups antlers from New Mexico anytime (in fact, I did once, and you sent a lovely thank you post card) Reindeer are NEVER hurt in the process collecting antlers. I did have someone ask me yesterday if they smelled like reindeer – of-course they do.

  • Desirre Hidalgo

    Poor Marlo! but even sick she is the cutest!